Now now Mini.
You evaded answering my question.
We all know everyone loves you!
The question was
do you get along with people easily or do they find you annoying?
Outoftheorg
by minimus 26 Replies latest jw friends
Now now Mini.
You evaded answering my question.
We all know everyone loves you!
The question was
do you get along with people easily or do they find you annoying?
Outoftheorg
I get along with others very well, thank you. It´s the others that don´t get along with me that well.
I can have a relationship with just about anyone. I am pretty easy going. I choose my friends, though. I don't think of everyone as a friend.
since i always had my friends picked for me from the kh or surrounding kh's, i learned to get along with people. truth is, i didn't like any of them. first time i was free to pick a friend for myself was when i was 9. she was a neighbor girl, becky zortich - i'll always remember her as my first friend. she moved soon after, though. anyway, back to topic - i find i was never taught one of the most key tools for being a friend - boundaries. both in knowing my own and in respecting others. i also find myself very judgmental of others (gee, wonder where i got that!). it's all stuff i'm working on, though.
I'm never sure about that. I suppose some people would say I am.. and then others would say .."Geez, that Special K is so hard to get along with."
My husband tends to tell me that I'm toooo easy going sometimes.
I feel that I'm a fairly private person but enjoy company of people in fewer numbers.
Larger groups of people make me more nervous (I wonder why?)...hmm...
SK
about the same in the real world as on here
I am never opposed to people seeing things my way.
I pretty much get along with everyone around me, but I hate braggers, people who spit, burp, or fart and think its funny. I hate phony religous people no matter what thier faith who constantly rant and rave about bible/preacher talk. I hate brownnosers/ambitios people on the job, but I also hate people who dont do thier job good and pass on their work to the next guy.
As far as in here I love all of youm and I know many of you at one time or another didn't like me but I slowly grow on you, like greenstuff on a sloth.
I try, but sometimes I don't think I have very good social skills. I never had to develop them as a child because we all just pretended to like each other at the Hall, and I wasn't allowed to have any association with worldly kids.
Ciara
I would like to think I do. The other day I was in a dressing room at Ross and this woman asked my opinion about something and I told her. Then she proceeded to tell me how her husband of 36 years left her and about her court case, etc. (I work in the legal field) I was surprised she confided in me and my boyfriend said I must draw people in. The way I see it -- I have a chip on my shoulder and I can be very negative. So I guess it depends on the mood I am in when you meet me.
Purza