I agree, the Society does kind of warp our minds about sex. It is that thinking that got me into an abusive seventeen year marriage with a "brother in good standing". Actually an ex Bethelite. Personally I think his anger stems from latent homosexual tendencies. He has done everything he possibly can to hide these feelings, including getting remarried. As you all know, I am married again too. To a wonderful man "in the world". I think sex is all about expressing love to your chosen mate. Our bodies are just what we use to express that love. We love our own bodies, why not love the body of our mate. If we decide to express that love, in any way we choose, that is acceptable to both of you, then what is the problem? It is a body, not seperate parts. And I choose to love all of it. Regardless of what is or is not considered porneia by the Society. Thinkers Wife