Personal Growth

by simplesally 16 Replies latest jw friends

  • HappyDad
    HappyDad

    Sally,

    The University of Phoenix is great and accredited. My daughter who turned down scholarships because of "it wouldn't be right for a JW to go to college" started with UOP last year and is going for her marketing degree. She is 33 yrs. old now, working full time and with a man and a mortgage in Florida. She got some Pell grants, student loans and me.....HappyDad $$$$. And I am more than happy to help her do this. I'm also glad she is out of the "tower" too!

    Good luck and if you need some input, I'm sure my daughter would be happy to exchange e-mail with you about UOP

    HappyDad (Bill)

  • Markfromcali
    Markfromcali

    Mmm... Its obvious what this thread is about, but how is getting an education personal growth? It may be an aspect of it - professional, intellectual growth, but you can also pretty much be the same person and just have that additional knowledge couldn't ya?

    Going to college was pretty much the first thing I did after I walked away, I can't remember if it was right then or if I started a month or two before - but it had nothing to do with leading me away from the JWs in that brief period of time. I guess I'm a little weird in that I have found nothing in college that I really want to study - psych, philosophy.. In any case it's all just conceptual knowlege. Actually at this point the only thing that remotely interests me is development and refinement of this human organism, which I suppose touches on the personal but isn't quite the same thing. In one sense you can say its just self knowledge, but you know when you have changed and its not just a piece of information that has entered your head, it's right here and very tangible.

    Well I don't know if anyone is interested in this, but what if you can put it all together? I mean we tend to compartmentalize things like you go to the gym to work on yourself physically and you go to school to develop intellectually, and both might be done in a fairly mechanical fashion. Let me put it this way, what if you can bring the intelligence into your workouts (and a packaged plan by the trainer doesn't count) and the power of the physical exercise into your intellectual development? Its really not all that different, both are functions of the same organism.

  • simplesally
    simplesally

    Mamochan,

    the link I cited at the beginning is kinda what you were referring to. The CLEP exams give you credit for your prior life experience. A lot of us have learned skills along the way and can get college credits for that life experience.

  • baysixforme
    baysixforme

    Since I left the organisation I have had training coming out of my ears. I've done a couple of counselling courses at college, trained in domestic violence, sexual violence and rape, impact and effects of crime and mental health (various issues). I do voluntary work for two local organisations, work part time in mental health and start my second year in psychology counselling in September. I manage to do this as a single parent with four kids. Nothing is impossible!

    Since I started out on my new life I have made numerous friends and met many that have been an inspiration to me. My life is more enriched and those that I support at work have become my motivation to move on and continue in my studies.

    Anybody that thinks that they are too old, too dumb, too stuck in their ways should think again.

    When I left the organisation, I left my husband, my home, my posessions, my "friends", my entire way of life.

    I took with me my three young children and my ten week old baby, a suitcase of photos, a few cherished items, a strong will to provide my kids with a better way of life and a great big dollop of hope.

    When I look back now at that particular time in my life, although I had nothing in material terms, I was rich with opportunity. It was the best descision I ever made. Getting an education has been the second best!

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    I left the borg in 85. I was 33 years old and headed for college. Took a 3-year professional counseling program. About 1/2 of the class was over 30 yrs old. After I graduated I headed for university and took another 3 yr program for counseling although it took me 5 yrs to complete because I did part of it part time.

    When I started I had two preteens so basically went through the teen years with them in school. It wasn't easy but it was definitely worth it. Oh and in university the majority of my fellow students were over 30 yrs old

    Go for it

  • TrailBlazer04
    TrailBlazer04

    I'm a "never was"...but doing the late in life education thing. I graduated in 2001 (at 37) w/an AAS degree in Computer Aided Drafting and Design. I'm planning to go back for a BS/MS in aerospace engineering. I'm 40 now and figure I'll be 45-47 when I finish. I'll be working full time also.

    It's never too late. Some years ago, Dear Abby ran a letter from someone who was in his 30's who wanted to be a doctor. He talked about how it would take 10 years...so Abby asked, how old will you be in 10 years if you don't go back?

    Go for it! I wish you all the best!

    TB

  • MegaDude
    MegaDude

    I say go for it. The time it will take won't be oppressive and the education will give you more freedom of choice in your work career.

    One of my good friends who is an ex-JW recently finished his bachelor's degree via correspondence. It took him about 10 years but he did it at a comfortable pace all the while working a demanding job. He's thinking of possibly teaching and getting out of court reporting.

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