If you were the fiance would you leave the woman for cheating?
Seriously though...dumb mistake, the dollar signs went off right away...I'm QUITE GLAD she's not aborting.
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If you were the fiance would you leave the woman for cheating?
Seriously though...dumb mistake, the dollar signs went off right away...I'm QUITE GLAD she's not aborting.
*whew* Glad to know it was someone else's story you're sharing Sally. I was going to offer my condolences to you :)
Impregnated with Wrong Sperm
*whew* Glad to know it was someone else's story you're sharing Sally. I was going to offer my condolences to you :)
Yes, given the nature of the title of your last thread!! LOL Cassi
If I were her fiancé I would be VERY upset at her for not taking the morning-after pill.She gets to have her child, but he is left raising a stranger's child.
One of the great joys of raising a child is knowing that a small piece of yourself will continue to live after you are gone. The fiancé has been denied this and is actually stuck with the responsibilities of raising another man's child.
What she did was very selfish.
I disagree.
Unfortunately, in this case, we don't know how the father feels about it. Seriously...if they've been trying this hard to have a child for this long...where the child comes from may not be important. Being A FATHER IS. Coming from a person that may not be able to have kids...give me a kid. I don't care if it's white, black, yellow, or purple. If my husband said the child HAD to come from HIS loins - THAT would be selfish. You either want to be a parent or not. Where the kid comes from is secondary.
I heard of a sperm bank with large "catalog". It turned out that all samples originated from the owner of the bank:
[...]Dr. Cecil B. Jacobson's misconduct in implementing a fraudulent sperm donor scheme in which he injected his own sperm into his patients instead of the promised sperm of the patient's husband or an anonymous donor during artificial insemination procedures at his fertility clinic,[...] http://www.law.emory.edu/4circuit/feb95/931986.p.html
According to the Watchtower, the woman is now an adulterer, and should be disfellowshipped.
No worse she was raped!
My goodness Elsewhere- it's her child. Yes, I understand it's not her fiance's baby, but it's her biological child! What kind of a partner would he be if he expected her to kill her own much sought after baby? Would you really want your partner to kill her own child because, by no fault of her own, she was impregnated with someone else's sperm?
I hate to by cynical but I wonder if she saw dollar signs. She probably should get something for the mistake but it's not the hospitals fault if she then decided she wanted to keep it surely?
My exact thoughts.
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My exact thoughts.
if she believed ending the pregnancy would be morally wrong, its still her "fault" for deciding to have the baby?
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what if she tried again later and then never got pregnant....
That is how I would view it. If I went through all that trouble to get pregnant, I wouldn't care who the donor was.