and peace to you all!
Dearest LT, may you have peace and you would have to review the record of their divorce/separation and events leading up to that. I have not researched the topic in quite some time, but the information is out there. The accusation is not speculation; it is on the record.
Dearest Sherry (and others who are uncertain) - Peace to you! Marriage was NOT for the purpose of procreation: procreation was... ummmm... the "icing" on the cake. We have several records to help us understand this:
1. The purpose of the creation of Eve as recorded at Genesis 2:18: as a complement of Adam so that he would have to continue by himself.
2. The marriage of Abram and Sarah, Zechariah and Elizabeth, Jacob and Rachel. These and many other women were "barren," and while their husbands may have procreated with other women, that did not stop their love for these women or their desire for them.
Marriage, dear ones... is the arrangement of God for the "completement" of the human entity: male and female. By reason of their DIFFERENCES, when the two come together, they become ONE complete entity in the eyes of God.
Please note that I do not state this to discredit people who have same sex desires/ relationships: my Lord has not granted me to speak on that issue one way or the other, and certainly not to judge, for sin... is sin. He hast, however, permitted me to understand sin. And... in one way or another... ALL have sinned... and sin... and fall short of the glory of God. Whether it be lying, drunkeness, adultery, shutting the door of one's tender compassion on another, foregoing justice and mercy... what have you. And sin... of the flesh... is not blasphemy... and therefore can be forgiven (that's why he gave his life). I am a servant, not a judge... and my Lord, although granted to judge... judges no one... but forgives all their sins... if they wish it. It is religion and/or the self-righteous... those who exist in sin while lying to themselves that they are "without sin"... who judge... and condemn. By means of doing so, they will be judged... and perhaps condemned. For by means of their judging and condemnation, they judge... and condemn... theirselves.
But I DO have the "freedom" to speak with regard to the true purpose of marriage, and it is the self-righteous and "super" pious who condemn marriage (due to its sexual component), and the unkowing of God who believe that He requires celibacy within a marriage. True, celibacy within a marriage is not a crime; however, to use God as the excuse for such is deceitful: God created the relationship... indeed, He sanctified it.
My Lord lived a celibate life for one reason: love. He could not give himself to a woman to live for her, belong solely TO her... for he belonged to many more and was to sacrifice himself for them. Had he married, even allowed a "romantic" relationship, he would have eventually cheated the other party out of a life that was owed to her: he could not have withheld his body from her, for he "belonged" to her and her to him. Thus, his body would not have been his... to sacrifice.
A man and a woman are to enjoy one another's bodies, with JOY... not with apprehension, not with revulsion... and certainly not out of a false compulsion to simply please the other party. (Proverbs 5:19). If it ain't "genuine"... it's deceit... which is leaven... which is hypocrisy... which is "wrong": one is not being HONEST with one's mate, and therefore with the Christ.
In those instances when one truly does not feel "love" for one's mate due to abuse, etc., from that mate (and "abuse" comes in many forms, dear ones) so that one cannot enjoy being intimate, one needs to get to the "heart" of the matter with one's mate, if at all possible (meaning, if one's mate is willing to address to issues. Many times, unfortunately, a mate is not), and as soon as possible. If one's mate is not willing, one should not continue to function in deceit, but throw that "burden" on Christ. He will work it out FOR you... praise JAH... so that whatever the result, YOUR conscience... will be "clean".
Again, I bid you all the greatest of peace.
A slave of Christ,
SJ