Ann-
1#-How do you get notified when someone replies to your post so I dont have to keep checking?
That feature isn't implemented on this site.
2# I still CANNOT see any of my threads,they do not show up in the active topics section or friends section(where I,ve posted) I have to click on my profile and click on my post history and topic history to see my threads and who responded to my posts.
Must be a glitch on your end. I see your threads just fine.