Sassy, XW posted exactly how I feel. I am sorry, I cannot believe you want roses on your desk from him. You mentioned this the last time he did this and I didn't say anything. Flowers are not going to make up for what he has been doing.
For everyone who doesn't know: Sassy has confronted him many times about leaving the house late at night and then coming home at 4,5 or 6 am. He says he 'drives around' or drives to the airport and watches the planes. You know, I know Orange County airport has no flights after 10pm, I wonder what time Ontario Airport closes?? He claims he is 'thinking' about his problems, his kids and Sassy. Oh and they live in a 2 bedroom apartment and he says he needs space so he goes out to think.
Back from the backround info............. If he is thinking about you, thinking about his problems, then he should realize he is making you stay awake, making you distressed, making you wonder about his fidelity!!! He is just creating another problem that he will have to worry about.
Regarding needing space: Well, truth be told, it can cramped in a 2 bedroom even if you are sitting in one room and he is another. But let's stick with the truth!! Your apartment complex is HUGE. There is a pool and hot tub and work out place. He could go SIT by the pool. He could go for a walk in your extremely safe neighborhood!!!
I thought you took the keys away from him. (It's Sassy's car) So, he is going in your purse again???? Ok, hide the fricking keys. Make his late night caller come get him and she will realize he doesn't even own a car. Pretty soon she won't call!!
December========= the lease is up and you can move on! Everyone: Sassy is liable til December for her 2 bedroom. If she kicks him out, she cannot afford the rent but will then still have to pay it and not even be living there. It would ruin her credit, something Californians can't afford to ruin. But you can relegate him to the 2nd bedroom and lock your bedroom door after you put your computer back in your room!!!
