Be courageous, firm, and bold.
It worked for my son - he stood up for what he truly believed and shared his thoughts freely with us as JW parents. How could we not appreciate this, having raised him to be true to convictions? By allowing him to be his own person instead of one of the homogenous group, we all woke up to the fact that we all had been led as sheep to the slaughter - ( more in a private message to you, click on inbox at top left )
All the best to you!