oh who says they make sense.. take the rule you mentioned above
Isn't it interesting that if two people see someone leaving someone?s house at 5am, thus they stayed all night, that is grounds for DFing. (see elder's book)
my exhusband had the hotel key (and admitted using it) for a female co worker he was having an affair with.. so he even admitted to being alone with her AT A HOTEL .. so 2 witnesses weren't even needed, but he admitted only to sleeping in the same room with her... said no sex.. so they told me I had no grounds for divorce.. (even though to me he admitted having sex with her)