CZAR says:
So, Terry, I'm confused. Are you saying that morality IS relative or that it isn't?
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The need to determine our standard of behavior is absolute. The practical nature of finding the most efficacious way of solving life's problems is absolute. The solution each of us chooses will be relative. But, the end we reach and the means we used will be judged by success and the impact on others.
Society has much to say about our behavior. Society's values are consensus driven in democracies. In totalitarian society there is no consensus. It is obedience to the dictates of the soverign that is pronounced: moral. In Theocracies, it is the pronouncements of God as interpreted by the priests that is regarded as moral.
But, in reality, what works best works best regardless of who is making the rules. That "best" is often regarded by different people differently. That is what "seems" relative about morality.
If I could make just one point clear, it is this: Conversation about Morality has to be viewed through how many __recursions__it is made. *(Recursive: Referring back to itself)
If I make a choice for myself based on my goal of a good life well lived; I am making a moral choice. The results of that choice will prove or disprove the accuracy of my choice in absolute terms. That is to say, do I reach my goal by the consequence of my action?
But, if I talk to you about the choices you make; in terms of the methodology of my morality, the discussion steps back recursively. This added dimension flavors the soup with the seasoning of one person's opinion about another's choices. To wit: not all moral choices can be absolutely judged to be THE best choice because of the long term test of the consequence.
So, the point of having an understanding of morality in the first place is to have SOMETHING on which to base our choices rather than mere NOTHING.
We do as our parents tell us.
We do as our teachers tell us.
We do as our religion tells us.
At what point do we do what we think is best? Or, to put it bluntly, "how the hell do THEY know what is best for MY life?"