Roamingfeline, you've been to Bastrop cool. My family live in area in Bastrop called Cedar Creek which is on our homestead. I have to say that race relations have come a long way from the days of my parents and grand parents. USA is a still a young country, with the progress we Americans have made regarding race relations is a source of encouragement. I know my daughters will grow up in a better America than I did because their generation are a generation away from those who were directly impacted by racism. They wont have the passion and resentment of my generation who saw the impact segregaton and discrimination had on our kinfolk, our people. Of course my daughters will hear about it but it's not the same as growing up with those who were directly affected.
Perhaps one day your Dad will see where he is wrong, perhaps not. As the generations who came of age during the early 1900 to the 1960's die out hopefully their views regarding race will die with them leaving as little a legacy possible.
Take care, Spartacus