Ok, I am not bisexual or gay. But I seem to be drawn to gay men! I am a female. I fall hard for the guys who like guys. What does this mean? Do I have bi-sexual tendancy's or am I just weird? This has been a pattern for a while. I fall in love with gay guys! Help! What is wrong with me?
Help! What does this mean?
by anew 10 Replies latest jw friends
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Satanus
Do I have bi-sexual tendancy's or am I just weird?
I don't know. One question. are you afraid of *whispering* sex ?
S
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gumby
Gay men are usually not intimidating nor have the macho....'I'm a mean bastard' attitude many men can have.
Perhaps you feel safe with this type of personality and fear the opposite of this.
Gumby
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Satanus
Gumniac
Don't you have to work tomorrow, you freak.
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avishai
Perhaps you feel safe with this type of personality and fear the opposite of this.
Yep. I've seen this to many times. Usually it means you are not ready to face a real relationship, so you pin your attractions on unattainable men. Or you just dig 'em. It's OK. I went thru a phase where it seemed like all i chased were lipstick lesbians. Even caught one or two. It was fun, but o' course it never lasted, usually it was just chix who wanted to prove to themselves once and for all whether they were gay or not. Either direction they went, men or women, it did'nt work 'cuz i was always "transition guy".
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gumby
SS speedster(frickin things goin backwards)
What the crap YOU doin up so late ya damn hypocrit? I took a 2 and a half hour nap this afternnon so I ain't ready for bed yet so I figured I'd come here with the rest of you losers who stare at a screen and type. Sad....ain't it?
Gumby
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Satanus
Gumbelstilskin
You lazy bastard, sleeping while i worked on my truck all day. I don't work tomorrow.
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Country Girl
I can understand how you feel! I have many gay male friends, and they are very special to me. Not *because* they are gay, but because they seem to be less caught up in the "machismo" role playing of regular ole guys like.. oh... Gumbone-man, and offer some pretty interesting perspectives on many issues. A few of them are flamboyant, some are more quiet, and some are very studious. Just depends. But I love them as I love all of my friends and their different qualities!
I haven't fallen for any gay guys, but that is prolly cuz I'm married and that's not coo' with my ole foo'. So, maybe it's a safeguard, too. I dunno.. But my gay guy friends are pretty nifty. <----- bet ya haven't seen that word in a dozen decades or so! Maybe you are a gay guy trapped in a girl's body?
I know I am, as you can see by my avatar. <slaps Gumbini around and makes him beg for more show tunes>.
Countrified Goyle
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gumby
Hi girly!!!
I think I'm gonna start actin gay so I can at least get the girls to flirt at least a tad dammit! I don't wanna touch em really......just get hit on bout twice a day. My ego's a dyin dammit!!!!
Gumby
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anew
Nifty--it has been a while, Country Girl, since I have heard that. That's cool lol