Date someone who already is dating someone?

by logansrun 43 Replies latest social relationships

  • logansrun
    logansrun

    Do you think it is wrong to ask someone out who you happen to know already has a girl/boyfriend? Even if you are unsure if it is a "serious" significant other (and have never met them)? And if the person you are interested in seems interested in you?

    Just curious (of course!),

    Bradley

  • shamus
  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    My very personal opinion is that if they are seeing someone else then they are off limits.

    I think too that if someone accepted that "date" knowing they were already involved (regardless of how serious) then I might question if they did it to that person then sometime in the future they might do it to me.

    Besides - who needs the headache and heartache?

  • logansrun
    logansrun

    Bah!

  • shamus
    shamus

    So who's your lucky lady brad? Or is there even one?

  • logansrun
    logansrun

    Shamus,

    Well, the only way this lady will be "lucky" is if she is "my lucky lady." Kidding. Well, perhaps.

    B.

    PS...oh, this is no one here, btw....

  • shamus
    shamus
    PS...oh, this is no one here, btw....

    Ah. I heard that you and Sword Of Jah were really good friends... and,,, well....

  • WildHorses
    WildHorses

    I feel the same way as Lady. Why would you want to go out with someone who would possibly cheat on you in the future?

  • gypsywildone
    gypsywildone

    Sounds like way too much work, could get complicated.

  • logansrun
    logansrun

    Who said anything about cheating? Who's to say she wouldn't just dump her boyfriend and take me on? (I know she has one only in passing. Quote: "I really don't want to see my sick boyfriend after class....yadda, yadda")

    I wouldn't go out w/someone who was dating someone else at the same time. Perhaps thread title should be re-phrased...

    B.

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