http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/10/79696/1.ashx
I just posted this thread last night; I have read over half of the book it concerns, "Captives of a Concept", and I would recommend it highly.
The strategy he proposes is very simple, and one I had already understood... but I understand some details even more clearly now, and I think you will appreciate how well he's outlined the problem... and how to approach solving it...
btw, are you saying that it has been 2 years since you ran across online info? Have you been lurking here a while, or did it take you a long time to find this board?
bebu