Special Happy Thanksgiving to those of you without family due to the WTBTS

by confusedjw 15 Replies latest jw friends

  • confusedjw
    confusedjw

    I know thinks would be very different for me, if my family wasn't out with me or if I was DF'd or if some friends from the hall didn't stay in touch or if I hadn't been able to make other friends.

    I KNOW that for some of you, the holiday season stinks because of being in limbo or being DF'd and not making new friends yet or other reasons all related to the WTBTS.

    Maybe you are alone without your family. That is terrible knowing that in general this is a day that family is celebrated.

    a HUGE (((HUG))) to you then. My apologies that life is like that for you this moment and I hope happiness runs you down and overtakes you very soon!

    Happy Thanksgiving!

  • wizedup
    wizedup

    Such a thoughtful thread. Bless your heart.

    May I also join in wishing you all peace and contentment.

    ((((hugs)))))

  • Tigerman
    Tigerman

    Great post, confusedjw . . .and may I also add A Happy Thanksgiving to everyone out there. It matters not what religion one belongs to , if any, we should all count our blessings.

  • Sunnygal41
    Sunnygal41

    Confused, how wonderfully thoughtful! I remember that first TG I was out............it was absolutely the longest day of my life..........I hadn't made any friends yet outside and I was totally alone that whole day................it sucked............so, for those who are going thru that time now, I want you all to know you will be in my mind and heart all day today............I'll be checking back here later, when I get home and see how things are with everyone..........anyone want to chat or just pm me, I'll answer them...........

    ((((To the Lonely on this Day)))

    Terri

  • willyloman
    willyloman
    and I hope happiness runs you down and overtakes you very soon!

    I just looked over my shoulder and it appears to be gaining on us! (Happiness, that is).

    Thanks for the nice thought. This is an odd day for those of us freshly "out," since Thanksgiving day has always marked the start of the dreaded holiday season, a time when we forced ourselves to take leave of our senses and withdraw from workmates, neighbors and relatives, pretending all the while that we were somehow in on a special secret that made us different from and superior to them. What a shock to discover we were having no, as in ZERO, impact on them and their lives. To this day, these people have no idea what where we were coming from!

    It reminds me of the old joke:

    When I was 20, I as always concerned about what people thought of me.

    When I was 40, I didn't care what people thought of me.

    When I was 60, I realized people weren't thinking about me at all.

    Happy Thanksgving Day to all of our new friends on JWD, and to Simon and Ang especially for bringing us this lifeline. The forum has made so much difference in all our lives! It's a terrific day to reflect, to be thankful, to appreciate what we've got. As for me, I am spending the day with my liberated family; we will celebrate our freedom today, toast to our new future, and savor a turkey that, for the first time in 30 years, we are actually eating on Thursday (rather than Friday).

  • CountryGuy
    CountryGuy
    we will celebrate our freedom today, toast to our new future, and savor a turkey that, for the first time in 30 years, we are actually eating on Thursday (rather than Friday).

    Well said.

    Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

    CountryGuy of the More Dressing, Please-Class

  • confusedjw
    confusedjw

    Well the our friends (still JW's) just left and it was a wonderful day. They are so cool, it's like nothing has happened and one is a regular pioneer. We played cards, pictionary and watched home movies that featured them.

    I really do hope everyone else had a great day.

  • seeitallclearlynow
    seeitallclearlynow

    I just took the turkey out of the oven half an hour ago and my son just happened to arrive home and is now eating his turkey dinner with me. So it really worked out! Turkey is delicious. Cool enough!

  • Granny Linda
    Granny Linda

    Some cheers and hugs from me, too.

    GL

  • Fleur
    Fleur

    thanks so much for the really sweet thread. It was just what I needed to hear tonight.

    This is going to be a really sad and shunning-filled weekend for me, and knowing that people here really understand what I'm going through helps, a lot.

    I am grateful for the small little family I have on my own...that I've chosen and who have chosen me. I was just watching Lilo and Stitch on the Disney Channel (never saw it before) and at the end, the little alien who is told he can only ever be destructive and never have a family says of Lilo and her sister;

    "This is my family. I found it on my own. It's small, and broken. But it's still good."

    Please tell me why I can't stop crying...

    hugs to everyone and much love,

    esmeralda

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