I have a son aged 19. He's a bit of a handsome devil at the best of times and the young ladies have always been ... how can I put it nicely.... fond of him. But having said that he's always very friendly with everyone.
We used to go to a congregation a few miles from where we live now when he was a tiny child and he was friendly with the kids there. He also went to college with a young girl whose father is an elder at this congregation. Anyway she's aware that we've 'faded' away from the JW's but she still texts and emails my son most days and vice versa.
She belongs to a seriously fanatical JW family, all pioneers, elders, MS's, no spiritual rif raf allowed and she says she has been pressured into pioneering and does not want to be a JW. She is baptised but has emailed to say that her family have gone 'crazy' at her because she's put christmas decorations up in her room. Not surprising, huh!
I am sure that to this young girl it would be a disaster to be disfellowshipped and shunned by her family so I have told my son not to encourage her one way or another to drop the JW's but I do feel very strongly sorry for her.
Any suggestions people?
Advice would be much appreciated!