p.s. when my sister was trying to recruit me a while back, i went with my son to a meeting one night. she told us what to wear, etc.... so worried about what people would think. they actually stationed men at the back of the hall, striking poses like bouncers and blocking the exit. my son kinda freaked, feeling like he couldn't just get up and leave if he wanted to.
anyway, the weird thing was the men and little boys all wearing three-piece suits, with vests. this one tiny kid, he couldn't have been more than four, walked by dressed in a tiny suit complete with vest tie and patent leather shoes and his hair plastered to his head with tons of goo, and wearing aviator glasses. my son leaned over to me and said sotto voce "well that's queer". i got a good chuckle outta that.
p.s. i was scandalized to see several young wives wearing low-cut dresses and heavy makeup. when i was in "the Truth" we had to be extremely modest and circumspect about our attire, etc. the young unmarried girls were typically drab, however... anyway, they all kept looking at us like we were from Mars. weirrrrd.....