they never got the message but she showed up at your door.. bullshit.. they should be df'd for LYING!
I woulda replied before now red if i'd been online.. ( a vampire novel kept me away)
listen to some of the smart peoples advice here. the registered letter thing sounds appropriate at this point. you shouldnt be having to fight them at this point in your life.. you need space and you have more pressing needs to tend to. screw them for not being understanding or even having MANNERS..
come on over to my house.. no witnesses know where i live and i have a blender! MAAAAAAAHGARITAAAAAAA'S