I was talking with my mom the other day and we got on the subject of my father's funeral. It old her that one of the reasons my son did not ever want to go back to the KH was because of how I was shunned, even at my dad's own funeral.
She said "I know, he just doesn't understand" - I replied "No - he knows why - He just doesn't believe that's what Jesus would have wanted"
She had no response to that.