When I was a JW, I lived in Massachusetts, and my ex and I used to spend Christmas Day with a certain couple who had been my friends before we were married. The agenda was always the same: dinner at a Chinese restaurant followed by a movie (since we didn't actually celebrate Christmas). Well, I've left the JW's and so have my friends. My ex-wife divorced me and I've remarried. But the tradition continues, even though I now live in New Jersey, three hours away from my friends' house. I've booked a hotel room in the area, and on the morning of Dec. 25, we will drive to Mass. for a Chinese dinner and a movie with our friends. I expect that my daughter and her husband will join us (my ex will not, however - thank God ). We'll be staying over through Sunday (which we will spend with my daughter and son-in-law) and on Monday, will head down into Connecticut to my sister-in-law's house, where my wife's family will be having their Christmas celebration. Monday night, we'll be headed home.