Why Do People Become/Stay As Jehovah's Witnesses???

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  • blondie
    blondie
    Mind Control - The BITE Model

    From chapter two of Releasing the Bonds: Empowering People to Think for Themselves*

    *© 2000 by Steven Hassan; published by Freedom of Mind Press, Somerville MA

    Destructive mind control can be understood in terms of four basic components, which form the acronym BITE:

    I.

    Behavior Control

    II.

    Information Control

    III.

    Thought Control

    IV.

    Emotional Control

    It is important to understand that destructive mind control can be determined when the overall effect of these four components promotes dependency and obedience to some leader or cause. It is not necessary for every single item on the list to be present. Mind controlled cult members can live in their own apartments, have nine-to-five jobs, be married with children, and still be unable to think for themselves and act independently.

    I. Behavior Control

    1. Regulation of individual's physical reality

    a. Where, how and with whom the member lives and associates with
    b. What clothes, colors, hairstyles the person wears
    c. What food the person eats, drinks, adopts, and rejects
    d. How much sleep the person is able to have
    e. Financial dependence
    f. Little or no time spent on leisure, entertainment, vacations

    2. Major time commitment required for indoctrination sessions and group rituals

    3. Need to ask permission for major decisions

    4. Need to report thoughts, feelings and activities to superiors

    5. Rewards and punishments (behavior modification techniques- positive and negative).

    6. Individualism discouraged; group think prevails

    7. Rigid rules and regulations

    8. Need for obedience and dependency

    II. Information Control

    1. Use of deception

    a. Deliberately holding back information
    b. Distorting information to make it acceptable
    c. Outright lying

    2. Access to non-cult sources of information minimized or discouraged

    a. Books, articles, newspapers, magazines, TV, radio
    b. Critical information
    c. Former members
    d. Keep members so busy they don't have time to think

    3. Compartmentalization of information; Outsider vs. Insider doctrines

    a. Information is not freely accessible
    b. Information varies at different levels and missions within pyramid
    c. Leadership decides who "needs to know" what

    4. Spying on other members is encouraged

    a. Pairing up with "buddy" system to monitor and control
    b. Reporting deviant thoughts, feelings, and actions to leadership

    5. Extensive use of cult generated information and propaganda

    a. Newsletters, magazines, journals, audio tapes, videotapes, etc.
    b. Misquotations, statements taken out of context from non-cult sources

    6. Unethical use of confession

    a. Information about "sins" used to abolish identity boundaries
    b. Past "sins" used to manipulate and control; no forgiveness or absolution
    III. Thought Control

    1. Need to internalize the group's doctrine as "Truth"

    a. Map = Reality
    b. Black and White thinking
    c. Good vs. evil
    d. Us vs. them (inside vs. outside)

    2. Adopt "loaded" language (characterized by "thought-terminating clichés"). Words are the tools we use to think with. These "special" words constrict rather than expand understanding. They function to reduce complexities of experience into trite, platitudinous "buzz words".

    3. Only "good" and "proper" thoughts are encouraged.

    4. Thought-stopping techniques (to shut down "reality testing" by stopping "negative" thoughts and allowing only "good" thoughts); rejection of rational analysis, critical thinking, constructive criticism.

    a. Denial, rationalization, justification, wishful thinkingb. Chanting
    c. Meditating
    d. Praying
    e. Speaking in "tongues"
    f. Singing or humming

    5. No critical questions about leader, doctrine, or policy seen as legitimate

    6. No alternative belief systems viewed as legitimate, good, or useful

    IV. Emotional Control

    1. Manipulate and narrow the range of a person's feelings.

    2. Make the person feel like if there are ever any problems it is always their fault, never the leader's or the group's.

    3. Excessive use of guilt

    a. Identity guilt

    1. Who you are (not living up to your potential)2. Your family
    3. Your past4. Your affiliations
    5. Your thoughts, feelings, actions

    b. Social guilt
    c. Historical guilt

    4. Excessive use of fear

    a. Fear of thinking independently
    b. Fear of the "outside" world
    c. Fear of enemies
    d. Fear of losing one's "salvation"
    e. Fear of leaving the group or being shunned by group
    f. Fear of disapproval

    5. Extremes of emotional highs and lows.

    6. Ritual and often public confession of "sins".

    7. Phobia indoctrination : programming of irrational fears of ever leaving the group or even questioning the leader's authority. The person under mind control cannot visualize a positive, fulfilled future without being in the group.

    a. No happiness or fulfillment "outside"of the groupb. Terrible consequences will take place if you leave: "hell"; "demon possession"; "incurable diseases"; "accidents"; "suicide"; "insanity"; "10,000 reincarnations"; etc.
    c. Shunning of leave takers. Fear of being rejected by friends, peers, and family.
    d. Never a legitimate reason to leave. From the group's perspective, people who leave are: "weak;" "undisciplined;" "unspiritual;" "worldly;" "brainwashed by family, counselors;" seduced by money, sex, rock and roll.
  • cyber-sista
    cyber-sista

    This is worthwhile info--just linked to it from another thread. think it is worth a go around for those who missed it the first time.

    cybs

  • Effervescent
    Effervescent

    "It has alot to do with fear! Fear of leaving. Fear of being shunned. Fear of starting over. Fear of doing something different from the norm. Fear of loosing everything." -------BINGO.

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    Mini, it's just addictive to some. That promise of an instant cure to all your problems can be like heroin. It really is the opium of JW type people.

    I thought they were answering all the questions no other religion I studied seemed to be able to answer. That's why I became one. Also, my brother died a couple of months before I "saw it was the truth". I didn't think his death made me vulnerable at the time, but it likely did.

  • prophecor
    prophecor

    Jehovah is a God of light and truth. If the WTS had nothing to hide then they would not fear their members reading outside material.

    Truth must never fear critcism. If it be truth, then it will survive any barrage of questioning, doubt or skepticism on its own merit, alone!

    Anything not of truth can't stand when believers are made to cower in fear of questioning the Society, its history and thier teachings, being denied their right to know the absolute truth, to face the toughest of questions in order to reach the core reasons as to why they should or should not believe.

  • TheEdge
    TheEdge

    Thanks for the BITE information Blondie - it look scaringly familiar!

    Once you realize it just isn't tru or "the truth", it's easier to leave.

    I'm not sure about this one, eg.

    .....what if you went to prison in 1940, and suddenly got released in 2005 at the age of 85? The World would look very scary, so much change, you're old, you know no one, in fact EVERYTHING you know is in a 6 x 6 cell - that's your security and familiarity. How could you start to build an alternative life at 85? Making new friends as your old ones are still in their 6 x 6?.........

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