This is not to mention an award or a specific achievement, but rather more of a recognition of how resiliant, positive and generally beautiful children are.
I had to meet with the Children's Aid Society today due to further allegations, (from my ex-wife), of my incompetence as a father. My children have supposedly FREELY and WILLINGLY told her regarding my house/my care that I : 1) never feed them and they go for a whole weekend without eating sometimes, 2) I always ask them to get beer for me, I give them beer all the time, 3) I am always at the computer (I admit I am here quite often when they are NOT with me) and that I never do anything with them when they are here, 4) HERE'S THE SHOCKER - I have pictures of my daughters NAKED in the bathtub (along with a hundred clothed, not mentioned... they are 6,4) and my ex feels that this may be an indication that I am a sexual deviant.
The sh*t she puts into their minds is f*cking sickening!!!!
Having gotten that off my chest.... .... here's the beautiful part about kids: Despite the fact that they all give me a bit of a hard time about coming before each visit (not surprising, considering the poison she feeds them when they are with her), within minutes they are more free than they ever were when my ex and I were together. My youngest dances up a storm, losing all inhibitions that restrict her when she is with my ex. My second youngest acts out songs, books etc. and my second oldest loves to draw, read and express himself more by genuine excitement for what he is doing at the time.
Here's to strength of character that all humans have the ability to express if given the chance. Here's to all the parents who recognize and live by the fact that positive influence towards their children creates a completely free human, ready to love themselves and others.
And, quite frankly, may the people who don't recognize that, learn it soon.
Brad