Hi! and Welcome!!!
I don't know what you're experiencing emotionally, but I remember my committee (joke of a) meeting. When they asked me to sit outside the little room, while they decided my fate - it took all of 5 min to determine I had a bad heart - I sat in the Kingdom Hall, looked around, and told myself I'd never step foot in one again. I said goodbye to it, and that way of life, and the control.... and my family.
Its been over 3 years now. I have a sister out, some support. You have your wife, which is wonderful, but you may have to cope, as many of us do, with the loss of our extended family. I haven't spoken to my father, grandparents, brother, uncle, cousins, life-long-friends, etc.
But you'll do as we all have. You'll make friends outside the org. You'll really enjoy life without the guilt and pressures. You'll be free.
Stick around and enjoy the board. Lots of experiences here, and many posters are at different stages of coping with being "out".