Nursing Mom's and Meetings

by jeanniebeanz 23 Replies latest social family

  • Jahna
    Jahna

    My first year nursing my oldest was spent in the only stall on the toilet of ladies room, in our small Kingdom Hall. Ironically the only thing between the main hall and washroom was that tacky paneling from the 60's, didn?t make for good sound proofing. If your baby was older then 3 mths, it hung half way into the wash basin when placed on the change table. If you changed your baby you also blocked the doorway. It was lovely! I once got literally stuck holding my oldest on the potty while pregnant! It was that small.

    Circuit Assemblies were chairs lined up along the furthest walls of the ladies room, with speaker echoing, doors slamming, toilets flushing and kids screaming. It was sweltering winter and summer. For my third we built a new hall and things were much better!

    District Assemblies were refurbished mens rooms with chairs backing up onto the urinals, which were papered off for hygiene?! Babies tended to rip them to shreds by the end of the first day. Many women used these "Mother?s Room" for personal ummm emergency use as the line ups for the ladies room were often to long. Made for a nice quiet place. This was a vast improvement over my first assembly with my oldest, where we sat under the hot sun for 4 days and nursed in a dark dusty curtained off portion of the race track! In the heat! No strollers!

    God what was I thinking! I won?t even go into the husband who thought 1 month old babies ate only during breaks, mom could pump at whim (in bathroom stall), babies never should cry during the meetings (it?s my fault baby won?t take a bottle), and oh yes "the men?s room don?t have any place to change babies (ever!)...why are you so grumpy."

    Jahna

  • kaykay_mp
    kaykay_mp
    God what was I thinking! I won?t even go into the husband who thought 1 month old babies ate only during breaks, mom could pump at whim (in bathroom stall), babies never should cry during the meetings (it?s my fault baby won?t take a bottle), and oh yes "the men?s room don?t have any place to change babies (ever!)...why are you so grumpy."

    God, what a neanderthal!

    laters

    kaykay_mp

  • orangefatcat
    orangefatcat

    I just wanted to mention that those dear friends nursing their infants were in a tough situation and it was taxing most of the time at an assembly to use the mens washrooms for nursing stations. I have always felt that mens washrooms smell worse then womens. The urinals seem to eminate this gross odour. Sorry boys but thats what I remember.

    And I have seen these poor moms go banannas when their little one acted up and some moms were such bitches they would hit their children and expected them to be tranquil when the mothers were hot and sticky. I hated seeing sisters doing this to their little ones. My brother-in-law discplined his baby girl with slaps and tell her she was bad because she was making a noise. God I could have punched his lights out.

    Our loving children deserve that wonderful milk mommy has in her breast.

    Orangefatcat

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    So glad I didnt have to put up with any of that. I had long left the jws before having my kids. And when I breastfed my babies I tended to whip it out whenever the babies wanted to nurse, but I always made sure I had a light blanket to cover me and the baby. I think because of my stature and no nonsense looks that may be the reason why no one has ever said anything to me when I nursed in public.

    Josie

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