I submit the following for your thoughts and comments
Making the claim
The single most significant problem I have with the JW doctrine, is that they claim that God chose them to be his earthly organization, to the exclusion of all others. For the purposes of this discussion I will concede that God at some point will or has chosen an organization to be TFDS (The Faithful and Descreet Slave).
If God chooses to designate a person(s) as a special servant, He has two means of making this choice manifest. First, He can directly contact all people He wishes to be made aware of His choice. An example of this would be the burning bush, or Christ walking on water. The key here, is that these are events that could have no other reasonable explanation to those beholding the events (save madness).
The second means he could use to make His decision manifest would be for Him to place it in the Bible, and make it apparent to those studying the Bible through the direction of His Holy Spirit. This is the means by which the JW claim that God used to make His choice known. This method would require people choosing whether or not they believe that God made this choice. In the first case there is no choice for people because there is simply no other reasonable explanation for the manifestation.
My questions here are:
Has God ever chosen a "special servant" and made His choice known through the second means?
The problem I have with the credibility of the second means is that it does require that people choose to believe it. All people decide to believe something by collecting a set of relevant facts, and using those facts and reason to prove as much as possible that something is/isn't true. An unfortunate fact of human nature is that what a person chooses to believe is heavily influenced by what they want to believe. Another unfortunate fact of human nature is that we are all inherently prideful. We all have a desire to think of ourselves and present ourselves to others as somehow superior.
So my question here is:
How could any person assembling the facts and reasoning on them to determine that they themselves are TFDS, not be unduly influenced in making that choice, by the natural desire for the honor of being the one and only FDS of an Omnipotent Creator?
What makes me uncomfortable with the claim that JW make is that I simply do not think it is humanly possible for a person to decide to believe that God chose them, without their own pride influencing that decision. Furthermore, for them to be wrong on such a matter would mean that they took their decision and incorrectly said it was God's decision. Even if they were completely honest in their mistake (which I don't think is possible), I would have to think it would be blasphemous.
So my questions here are:
Wouldn't any honest person realize that they could not possibly be objective in choosing to believe that God chose them? Wouldn't they be so afraid of getting it wrong, that they wouldn't want to even seriously entertain the thought, let alone proclaim it?
If a person did choose to believe that God chose them, if they were honest wouldn't they constantly have to question their reasoning to make sure they got it right? Does the Governing Body ever question this belief?