My wife and I made the fade in the past year or so - a side benefit is now beginning to become apparent. Our adult daughter, who was somewhat estranged due to being Df'd has come back into our lives. [We never did completely shun her, as we never agreed fully with that, but it was always strained because we were under the guilt trip]. She is dealing with alot of problems due to personal issues, but we have our only child back into our lives [there are some caveats to this I may enlarge upon someday].
How good it is to return to the natural unconditional love that we were intended to show to those we love. This has been going on since we faded, but I just felt the need to share this joy.
Jeff [feeling sensitive tonight class]