Quick help please! - Euthanizing our cat

by AlmostAtheist 51 Replies latest jw friends

  • seattleniceguy
    seattleniceguy

    Hey Dave,

    Sorry to hear about that. My cat had to be euthanized when I was about 12, and I can remember it well. But it felt like we were doing the right thing for a friend who was suffering. I was charged with burying him the next day, and I can remember that quite clearly too. It made death seem more real, and actually less scary, since I was able to see it squarely for the first time. Animals do teach us a lot about life. I hope your kid pulls through okay and grows a little for the experience. And best wishes to you and Gina.

    SNG

  • fairchild
    fairchild

    Hi Dave,

    I am so sorry to hear about your cat. I have a 7 year old cat myself, and she is all I have family-wise. Pets do become a part of the family, and when you have to let them go, it hurts. Hang in there.

  • Leolaia
    Leolaia

    How hard to have two losses in one month! I'm so sorry. ((((hugs))))

    I'm keeping an eye on your website:

    http://www.brokenwingsforum.com/

    --leo

  • missy04
    missy04

    Awwwww...I am so sorry for you guys' loss...I have lost a few pets and I know how awful it is..

    I think you handled it very very well

    (((hugs)))

    ~Sarah

  • talley
    talley

    I'm so very sorry that you have lost two "family members" now. Here is a poem from http://serendipityairedales.tripod.com/If_itshouldbe.html that has given me a bit of comfort.


    If It Should Be

    If it should be that I grow frail and weak
    An pain should keep me from my sleep
    Then you must do what must be done
    For this, the last battle, cannot be won.

    You will be sad, I understand
    Don't let your grief then stay your hand.
    For this day, more than the rest
    Your love and friendship stand the test.

    We've had so many happy years
    What is to come can hold no fears
    Would not want me to suffer so
    When the time comes please let me go.

    Take me where my needs they'll tend
    Only, stay with me to the end
    And hold me firm and speak to me
    Until my eyes no longer see.

    I know in time you will see
    It is a kindness you do to me
    Although my tail its last has waved
    From pain and suffering I have been saved.

    Don't grieve it should be you
    Who has to decide this thing to do
    We've been so close we two these years
    Don't let your heart hold any tears.

    So I am glad, not that she's gone
    But that this earth she roamed and lived upon
    Was my earth, too, that I had closely known
    And loved her and that my love I'd shown.

    Tears over her departure?
    Nay - a smile
    That I had walked with her a little while.

    Author - unknown

  • AlmostAtheist
    AlmostAtheist
    Tears over her departure?
    Nay - a smile
    That I had walked with her a little while.

    How about I meet you half-way, and smile too? One of my favorite memories of her is how protective she was over her scratching post. She loved it. If you walked over to it and touched it, she'd race toward it and grab it, sometimes even knock it over. It might be my house (and that was open for debate) but it was HER scratching post!

    I'm not a poetry kinda guy, but that was beautiful. Thank you so much for that.

    Dave

  • FMZ
    FMZ

    AA... condolences to you and yours mate.

    She will still be with you in spirit tho, as it sounds like she was much loved. If you ever suddenly feel like kitty is rubbing up against your leg... she probably is ;). Pets often stay around their families after they depart as they still know they are loved.

    FMZ

  • diamondblue1974
    diamondblue1974

    Sorry for your loss; being a cat lover myself I can understand what dilemma you faced; however you made the right decision.

    G

  • Billygoat
    Billygoat

    ((((AA and FF))))

    I'm so sorry to hear about the family kitty. I have two myself and a little Maltese. I lost my first dog last September and it was hard. I still have a hard time with it. But you've done a kind thing for your little cat. She was relying on you to be there until the end. You're a good mom and dad.

    Andi

  • Beachbender
    Beachbender

    I`m truly heartbroken for you and your family right now, and I`m trying to type through tears!! My "kittyboy" just turned 18, and went blind in one eye last year, so we are keeping a very close eye on him. He is truly a big part of our family and has been with me since his beginning, ( I watched him being born). Please believe you did the right thing. You`ll be in my thoughts today

    To kitty, may he (she) rest in peace.

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