1 Corinthians 5:11 "But now I am writing you to quit mixing in company with anyone called a brother that is a fornicator or a greedy person or an idolater or a reviler or a drunkard or an extortioner, not even eating with such a man."
If we were not allowed to be spoken to after disfellowship, why doesnt this scripture clearly say "not even speaking with such a man"? There is a major difference between getting together and eating with sinners, than there is talking to them at the kingdom hall. Or where in the new world translation does it say to not speak to a person whom is disfellowshipped. For that matter, where is the word disfellowshipped even mentioned in the bible?