fleaman,
I can't disagree - I'm sure many witnesses are happy to see new faces at the KH, but this still doesn't make up for the fact that they are misguided. I still don't know which of their beliefs attract you to the Memorial.
I mean, I'm not a Christian so I can't say if Jesus is properly respected there, but I certainly find the whole idea of dividing people into the "participating" and "observing" classes discriminating and rather preposterous. I mean do you really believe many of those few participating will first help Jesus kill 99% of the world (including the members of this forum (apostates)) and then rule the Earth for a thousand years? I guess not. And if not, then what makes you want to go there? Sentiments? Anyway, this may be a personal question.
As for your girlfriend - if you are taking her there I guess you are giving the JWs some credit in her eyes, so she may start thinking the religion is ok and the fault is somewhere with you.
Pole