I went to the Memorial and to the Sunday meeting...

by JH 27 Replies latest jw friends

  • KittyLiquor
    KittyLiquor

    Oh my dear Rat, run like hell !!!!!!! That is what happened to Buttlight. They are out for your rodent ass.....lol

  • ButtLight
    ButtLight

    OMG JH thats funny. I would say, If there are two elders coming over, they want to know your current situation. If its not good, you'll get the axe. If your not really doing anything wrong, they will encourage you to go back. Simply cause I just went through the same thing last month.

    Your bud!

  • The Leological One
    The Leological One

    Hi JH,

    This is what I felt like at the hall

    Please forgive me if this question may be too personal; why did you go to the Sunday service, as well? Are you in the midst of trying to figure out whether you want to be a JW or not, or have you gone for family reasons, etc.?

    Again, sorry for the questions, but I'm thinking if you're still searching for answers and aren't sure of your full stance, I don't think you're a "rat/mole". Admittedly it's very easy for me to know my stance since I've never been a JW, but seeing my wife's DF'ing and its impact on her, I can understand some people's feelings and reluctance to want to address the situation any further and stay faded.

    In conjunction with a couple others on here, I agree that if you have a good reason, such as family or possibly not sure of your view of the society/possibly wanting to remain a JW based on beliefs, it might be a good idea to be really nice and not go into info that could get you DF'd. If you have to lie to keep from getting DF'd, please remember that these people would likely DF you in a second based on some messed up "new light" that could appear in any new WT mag.

    Best wishes~!

    Leonard

  • jeanniebeanz
    jeanniebeanz

    JH, you just made me jump... The pink eyes look so evil. Is that your special KH face? lol

    J

  • JH
    JH

    This is the first time (since over 10 years) that 2 elders will have a chance to talk to me, in private. They must see this as a golden opportunity.

    They will probaby ask why I've been gone for so long....what made me leave...And if I criticize the Org. they will call that apostasy.

    They want a conclusion to all of these years of inactivity.

    Probably, they want me to make a clear decision, follow them or get Df'd for any reason they'll find.

  • Valis
    Valis

    JH please report to the decon room stat!

  • JH
    JH

    I went to the hall, because I felt like going. I'm curious to see what changed, if anything changed. I want to stay inactive, and that's part of my game, going just once in a while, not to get the boot.

    I'm labeled "weak", not apostate. I've been doing this since over 10 years. (going to a meeting here and there, three, four times a year).

  • codeblue
    codeblue

    Well...you don't have to let the elders come by for a visit. IT is your right to go to a meeting when you want to without being quizzed.

  • Doubtfully Yours
    Doubtfully Yours

    JH,

    To the Memorial, and on Sunday too???!!! Wow!!!

    They're assuming right about now that you're having a change of heart. Well, there's no shame in that. Perhaps you are having a change of heart! The end is near, you know!

    DY - Any minute now!!!

  • kls
    kls

    Oh , oh JH, me thinks a rat is gonna get caught in a trap,,,,,,,,,best becareful.

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