What a sad situation for your niece. Your mother is some piece of work. Doesn't your sister have anything to say about her child. This is going to end in a tragedy if she doesn't get out of her homelife.
Such blackmail, do this do that and you can do this and do that, what a crock of you know what. Your niece's mental and emotional health is very fragile. I see this ending in a bad way if she doesn't leave her home. Your mother should leave you alone, I mean why is she all over you like an alien? Because you want to help her and they are saying your confusing her. Give me a break.
The thing that is paramount her is your niece's sanity. This poor kid is so messed up. I hate parents like that and there are so many parents that way towards thier children.
When my son didn't want to go to the meeting anymore I was disappointed but I never tried to emotionally blackmail him. Unlike his father who would give him money or buy him something if he went to the meetings. It was a mess. If a parent tries to push and push and push they will only rebel more and more. They need to let her make up her own mind, she is of legal age. Is she able to live elsewhere? Away from her mom and your mom? Could you take her in, or I guess they would blame you for everything, but then they are already doing that to you? What a pickle. I can feel your deep frustration on this. They need to back off before its to late and this sweet inocent will or may be end up a statisic if you get my meaning. And that would be terrible.
Oh I hate the JEhovah's Witnesses. That GB is so warped. why oh why don't they just leave families alone.
God forbid . Oh I wish I had a magic pill to help you and your niece. You and you alone are the only stable person in her life. It is good that she comes to you for help. I pray only good comes of this. Please keep us updated. Not to be nosy but out of deep concern for you and your neice.
All the very best and peace be with you
Luv Orangefatcat