AA- you're a genius. It worked.
Ok- This avatar is a picture of me and my wife on our post-adultery cruise. It had only been about 2 months since D-day and I was all tore up inside and depressed (full of pain). I'm not sure if it shows or not. But everyone compliments us on this photo... so I thought I'd give you all a peek of me.
It's also quite liberating as I am now sure to be recognized and the bOrg I'm sure will take a renewed "interest" in me. F*ck them, I refuse to live in fear. And now I know how the game is played. They need two "witnesses" to prove anything... hey if pedophiles can play that card than so can I.
Happy to say despite all my rants on JWD, that we are doing soooo much better and I can honestly say that all of you on JWD have probably helped more than any other outside influence. THX!!! My wife and I actually discuss most of what I read here and she agrees and will probably post for herself sometime. She's not a talker like me...
Without the influence of the oh so loving brotherhood, my wife and I have not just survived... we're beginning to flourish (again). She knows everything I've said on this forum and it's all been said to her face... no surprises and it's the TRUTH. Like I always say, " BLOOM WHERE YOU'RE PLANTED".
There are sure to be more ups and downs, but that's life. My worst nightmares came true ALL OF THEM, and I've survived with my family and WITHOUT my Dub acquaintances or their mute "God". They get no credit. As a matter of fact it was her Dub upbringing and warped mental outlook that led to her actions. She accepts full responsibility for her actions and seems to show it in an exceeding way. The elders treated us like shit when it all happened showing absolutely NO INSIGHT. All my Dub friends said "Dump the bitch- I would". But I made a promise to my kids that I would hang in there and try and save the family no matter what... until there was absolutely no hope of saving it.
It may be delussional but I feel I win! Against all odds.
So now you know... not that you really asked to.
u/d (of the forgiving is the hardest part class)