My story

by Chia 46 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Crumpet
    Crumpet

    chia

    beware of shadowx - he's a right charmer!

  • xjw_b12
    xjw_b12
    I wish I wasn't so wordy, but it seems like everything is essential to the story!

    Chia. It's therapeutic to put feelings to words. Once you start writing the emotions just come tumbling out, and it's hard to stop writing.

    Take Care and Carry On!

    xjw_b12

  • Chia
    Chia

    Thanks for the warning, I can see that! Everyone's been really great here.

    I have family in NC...Whitakers/Rocky Mount to be exact. I'm visiting them in July. Only one of them is a Witness, so I'm spending a week with her, since I may be unable to when I start fading.

  • morty
    morty

    Welcome to the board Chia!!!

    What a great story your wrote but, so sad to read.....

    so many here have simular heart breaks.....

  • gumby
    gumby

    Hi Chia.......and a warm welcome to you.

    I enjoyed your story and the way you told it

    Gumby

  • New Worldly Translation
    New Worldly Translation

    Welcome to JWD Chia!!

    Thanks for posting your story, it was really moving and you told it very well.

    All the best with your plans for college and moving house. Keep up all up to date with how your going on and here's hoping your mum sees the troof for what it really is soon too.

  • Thegoodgirl
    Thegoodgirl

    Welcome, Chia! Hope you are able to have a healthy happy existance away from your family soon. I know you love them, but you'll never be able to fully be yourself in that house. I cannot believe the elders would ask you those questions! Unbeleivable!!!!!

  • mouthy
    mouthy

    Did you have an orgasm? Did you engage in homosexual intercourse? From the front or behind?" It was awful. I didn't understand the need for these questions, I was stunned,

    I swear the Elders? get their jollies asking these questions . Thanks for sharing...

  • tijkmo
    tijkmo

    Did you have an orgasm? Did you engage in homosexual intercourse? From the front or behind?" It was awful. I didn't understand the need for these questions, I was stunned,

    hey chia....did you feel obliged to answer any of these questions....when i was elder on commitee i told the 'victim' that we had no intention of looking into details of wrongdoing so they would feel at least a little easier

    when i was 'victim'...i told commitee i had no intention of telling them details...just suffice to say...org definition of pornia covers it........must have been excruciating for you...i apologize on their behalf..morons

  • fleaman uk
    fleaman uk

    when i was 'victim'...i told commitee i had no intention of telling them details...just suffice to say...org definition of pornia covers it........must have been excruciating for you...i apologize on their behalf..morons

    Yer a good lad TijkmoThis intrusion into Private lives ..no matter its under the pretense of keeping the Cong clean...is a completely Un-Christian way of treating People who in the main are already feeling incredibly low.I think the poster who said they may get their jollies out of "interrogation"is spot on...

    An Elder in my old Cong always,ALWAYS used to volunteer for JC,s.He was a renowned creep (still is by all accounts)

    Sorry if ive gone a bit off topic,i try to be fair when discussing the Religion,in defense of my Parents etc,but this just makes me so bloody mad when i read about Elders totally abusing their positions in this way.It is wrong on every level.

    Welcome chia!

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