Please do not shun me!!!!

by TheListener 26 Replies latest jw friends

  • TheListener
    TheListener

    Alright. It is done.

    Last night during the announcements a new ministerial servant was appointed along with a new elder. Yippee!!

    Also, I was deleted from the elder body. Double Yiiipppeee!!!

    Of course I won't be getting my KM as early now. I am interested to hear whatever gossip is going around about me, but I set everything up pretty well for quite some time. Everyone knows how sickly I am don't ya know .

    Anyway, please don't treat me any differently than before. I'm still your brother, but I'm very ill and need time to take it easy and focus on my health.

    The only thing I'll miss is getting my KM early, reading all the letters from the society and going to the elder meeting with the CO to hear the new issues confronting the friends. I'll miss it because I'm nosey not because I really care .

    Alright, I will also miss being a moderate voice during committee meetings and discussing appointments. Hopefully some other brother will pick up my torture stake and carry on.

  • kls
    kls

    Not Shun you ? ,we will have to see about that.

    Congrats on you're deletion,,,,,oh evil one.

  • love2Bworldly
    love2Bworldly

    Congratulations! Are you trying to be a fader? Sorry you will miss out on the juicy gossip!

  • franklin J
    franklin J

    dear listenr,

    welcome to the forum.

    I think you have a bumpy ride ahead of you. You are among freinds here. Friends who have been there; done that. WE will not shun you.

    The first step ( which you have taken) is the hardest and most important. The world and your life is now literally your oyster and can be anything you wish to make of it. A blank canvas waiting for you to begin anew.

    Suggest you find someone to talk to; like a therapist, to help you find your way through the road ahead. It will not be easy; but has been and can be done.

    good luck,Frank

  • whyamihere
    whyamihere

    Just be happy and do what you think is best for you!

    Brooke...... I do not shun someone because it is unloving! Love your neighbor as yourself!

  • iiz2cool
    iiz2cool
    Of course I won't be getting my KM as early now.

    Just think of it as being weaned from spiritual pablum.

    Walter

  • Scully
    Scully

    TheListener writes:

    I will also miss being a moderate voice during committee meetings and discussing appointments. Hopefully some other brother will pick up my torture stake and carry on.

    Don't you know that there's hardly anything a Body of Elders TM hates more than one of their own who is always moderate and reasonable??

    On some level, I'd be feeling a bit worried about how the remaining elders will eventually brutalize the congregation in my absence. That's one of the burdens of leaving while knowing that you are the voice of calm and reason in a group of unreasonable facists and extremists.

  • Doubtfully Yours
    Doubtfully Yours

    Congratulation!

    Take good care of yourself now, ya hear?!

    DY

  • GetBusyLiving
    GetBusyLiving

    Congratulations on being deleated! Way to go!

    GBL

  • wanderlustguy
    wanderlustguy

    It must feel like a ton of bricks just got pushed off of you. Congratulations!

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