A few years ago my brother - law admitted that at 14 he had a sexual relationship for 5 years with the wife of an elder in his congo.
He was at 19 DFed for an affair he had with a fellow student.
He never told any one about the affair with the married sister, but now 10 years later, this sister and her unsufferable husband are planning to become assistant CO.
My mother - law, who is still in the"Lie" now knows about this affair and has made the statement that she has probable asked for forgiveness in her heart therefore the elders do not need to know of the affair.
My brother - law is going through his own issues and because of the way he has been treated ie.. shunned, basically disowned by most of his family, he wants to expose her and her husband who he believes knew about the affair.
I've recommended that he discuss this with his therapist and that he should think about why he feels the need to expose her now.
What would you do?
By the way this sister is 2 year younger than his mom.