No I'm not suggesting that. I'm just puzzled at these two statements and how they can be harmonized, If the mother didn't hear form Holly about the abuse until after the divorce? Did she suspect something years before and went to the elders? That to me seems like the only explaination.
According to the transcript she went to the elders because her husband was physically and emotional abusive.
Also, according to the transcript, as far as I know the mother claims that she did not know or suspect child abuse until after he moved out, but of course if she did know she is also culpable as well.