I just saw the Dateline piece. I have been trying to avoid watching it because I already knew how hard proof of the allegations is to come by, and knew just as well what kinds of emotions it would bring up in me.
If any JW has not seen it, try to find a copy to view. While you watch the piece, think about the kind of love Christ said would be evident among his disciples and see if you can find what's wrong with this picture. I bet you can. That is why you were warned not to watch it. That is why Barbara Anderson was DF'd. Because if you watched then you would know, and those custom-fitted blinders don't fit so well afterward.
Respectfully,
OldSoul