14 YEAR OLD JW GIRL ORDERED BACK TO BRITISH COLUMBIA

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  • SHUNNED FATHER
    SHUNNED FATHER

    I was interviewed on CTV National News and it was aired Tuesday night and Wednesday morning.

    There are a few video clips

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    Wed. May. 4 2005 6:33 AM ET

    A 14-year-old B.C. girl on her way to a Toronto court

    An artist's rendition of Ontario Superior Court case proceedings underway on Tuesday

    Jeremy Berland of the B.C. Ministry for Children and Families speaks with reporters outside the Toronto courthouse.

    Judge orders cancer-stricken girl back to B.C.

    CTV.ca News Staff

    An Ontario court has ordered a cancer-stricken girl from British Columbia, who had been refusing a blood transfusion, to return home.

    The 14-year-old girl, whose identity is protected by a court-ordered publication ban, wept as Justice Victor Paisley of Ontario Superior Court read the decision. A Jehovah's Witness, she says her religious beliefs forbid her from receiving someone else's blood. Jehovah's Witnesses consider blood to be sacred.

    The girl has already undergone surgery to remove a tumour from her leg as well as several rounds of chemotherapy. The treatment stripped her blood of red blood cells, prompting calls for a transfusion.

    The Ontario Superior Court judge said there was nothing faulty in an April 11 ruling by a B.C. judge ordering her to receive the medically-ordered transfusion.

    Under B.C. law, only those 19 and older can refuse medical treatment.

    "We're obviously pursuing it fairly assertively because we are very concerned about this child's safety," Jeremy Berland of the B.C. Ministry for Children and Families told reporters outside the courthouse.

    The girl and her family came to Ontario from B.C. last weekend. Their whereabouts were unknown, and it is believed they were staying with fellow Jehovah's Witnesses in the Toronto area.

    Toronto police did not actively look for the girl ahead of her court appearance Tuesday. However, an apprehension order issued in B.C. remains on police computers.

    Family lawyer Shane Brady says the family came to Ontario to get a second opinion about the girl's health at Toronto's Hospital for Sick Children, and possibly an American hospital.

    "She does not want a blood transfusion, but she wants to live," said Brady. "She wants the best medical treatment, but she wants treatment by those who have given this type of treatment without blood transfusions. It's a matter of choice."

    The family had indicated that their next stop for treatment without blood transfusions would be a medical centre in New York City.

    Brady denies the family came to Ontario to enter a more lenient judicial jurisdiction to override the B.C. rulings.

    CTV Toronto reporter Austin Delaney said there are still some legal avenues open to the girl. In Toronto, she can appeal Tuesday's jurisdictional ruling. "Or she can do what the judge here said: go back to B.C. where they made the original ruling, and appeal there."

    The girl is being examined by doctors who are trying to determine if she is well enough to travel. If she is, reports CTV Toronto, the girl and her parents will be escorted back to B.C. as soon as possible.

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    Judge orders ill teen back to B.C. for care

    Child-welfare officials in that province have power to order blood transfusion

    Globe and Mail

    By JAMES RUSK

    Wednesday, May 4, 2005 Page A9

    With a report from Canadian Press

    A 14-year-old Jehovah's Witness from British Columbia broke into tears at the end of a court hearing in Toronto where it was ruled yesterday that she must return to Vancouver for cancer treatment in which she could receive a blood transfusion that she opposes on religious grounds.

    From time to time, as lawyers argued about her fate during the day-long Ontario Superior Court hearing, the girl, who had been scheduled to be in a Vancouver hospital yesterday receiving chemotherapy for her cancer, had allowed herself a smile, in hopes that Mr. Justice Victor Paisley would let her seek medical treatment that would not involve a transfusion.

    But instead, Judge Paisley ordered the girl to comply with a B.C. Supreme Court order that had placed her in the custody of the provincial director of child-welfare services, who is empowered by court orders to force her to have a transfusion if her doctors deem it necessary.

    And instead of heading from Toronto to New York in her attempt to find alternate treatment, as she had hoped to do at the end of yesterday's hearing, the girl was hustled into an elevator surrounded by a phalanx of police, enforcing an earlier Ontario court order allowing police to apprehend her on behalf of the B.C. government.

    Shane Brady, a lawyer for the girl's parents, told reporters after the ruling that she will be examined by doctors at the Hospital For Sick Children in Toronto, adding, "But I assume that she will go back to British Columbia as soon as she is ready to go."

    The girl, who cannot be identified under a court order, has already received chemotherapy, which lowers the production of red blood cells.

    While she has not received a blood transfusion, her doctors feel that one might be necessary if her blood count falls to a level that threatens her life.

    B.C. child-welfare officials intervened when the girl, with the support of her parents, said that because of her religious beliefs she did not want a transfusion, even if it would save her life.

    Last month, the B.C. Supreme Court upheld a lower-court ruling that gave the child-welfare officials the authority to order a transfusion as part of her treatment.

    But even as B.C. officials were discussing in late April how the order might be carried out, the girl and her family left for Toronto, where they met with doctors at Sick Children's.

    Those doctors also said they would need to be able to give the girl a transfusion if necessary after chemotherapy, a lawyer for the B.C. government told the court.

    When B.C. officials learned that the girl was in Toronto, they obtained a ruling last Wednesday that put her in the sole custody of provincial child-welfare officials; on Friday, they obtained an Ontario court ruling that would allow police to apprehend her.

    The apprehension order was not enforced pending the hearing by Judge Paisley.

    Judge Paisley said in his ruling that it was difficult not to conclude that the teenager and her family had come to Ontario to evade the B.C. court orders that would require her to have a transfusion.

    "What other conclusion can a rational person come to?" he said.

    He also rejected an argument by her lawyer that under Ontario law governing consent for medical treatment, a court would have come to a different conclusion than the B.C. court and that he should find that it violated Ontario policy to enforce the B.C. court's ruling.

    Judge Paisley ruled that it is not contrary to provincial policy for an Ontario court to uphold a properly made order on a B.C. resident by a British Columbia court, "particularly if the life of that child is at risk if she does not have life-saving treatment."

    He added that if the teenager or her parents wish to appeal the ruling that put her in the custody of B.C. child-welfare officials, the appeal should be heard in that province.

    "It is entirely inappropriate for this court to start the evidentiary process all over again," Judge Paisley said.

    Mr. Brady said that while an appeal could still be launched, the girl will co-operate with the court's decision.

    Jeremy Berland, assistant deputy minister of Children and Family Development for British Columbia, said ministry staff would help with the girl's return process.

    "We will try to make the next step as easy as possible for her, but clearly we've got to move," he said after the ruling. "The window is not that wide open. We need to be able to start treatment as soon as the medical experts tell us it's appropriate to do so."

    The girl had a cancerous tumour removed from her right leg at B.C. Children's Hospital and underwent three months of chemotherapy without transfusions.

    Jehovah's Witnesses believe that blood is a sacred source of life not to be misused or tampered with under any circumstance.

    http://www.theglobeandmail.com/servlet/ArticleNews/TPStory/LAC/20050504/BLOOD04/TPHealth/

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere
    "She does not want a blood transfusion, but she wants to live," said Brady. "She wants the best medical treatment, but she wants treatment by those who have given this type of treatment without blood transfusions. It's a matter of choice."

    Does this mean that the WTS is now Pro-Choice?!?!?!

  • TrailBlazer04
    TrailBlazer04

    Yeah!!! Finally, someone who will act in the children's best interests, and to HELL with "God's Organization"

    TB

  • garybuss
    garybuss

    Those poor Witness people. They're caught in a trap. If they don't take blood medical treatment they will die. If they do take blood medical treatment, Jehovah will murder them. All they can do is run around looking for a miracle. When they fail to find the miracle, and they will fail, they will rationalize their behavior, then they will shut down their emotions.

    Then they will go into magical thinking. They will talk about invisible gods recreating the dead martyr in a perfect replica body and they will be meeting that replica soon in the new world. They pray for God's will to be done and they understand God's will to be the murder of most of the earth's people at Armageddon. Then their goals will have been achieved.

    Then they will use the dead Witness's body to preach doctrine over. Doctrine that they will change in 10 years and doctrine they will call speculation and old light.

    The Witnesses most likely will never visit the grave site of the brave martyr. The Witnesses who fight now for no blood treatment will grow old and die without seeing their promised reward and the next generation of Witnesses take their place at their neighbor's doors and on dirty street corners and in hospital corridors waiting for the miracle they need for their loved one.

    I watched a 26 year old Witness woman die from untreated leukemia. She refused a bone marrow transplant and blood medical treatment. She was my young wife. The leukemia ran wild. Her life was shortened by years, maybe decades. In the end she died from suffocation from lack of oxygen carrying blood cells. She was in agonizing pain. Her teeth all hurt at the same time. She went blind from blood vessels breaking in her eyes. She had a slow death and suffered terribly both psychically and emotionally.

    The kind doctors pleaded with her and with me to let them treat her with blood treatment and she refused and I refused. When she died, the nurses cried. Delores Lorraine Busselman died January 12, 1971.

    She died on a Tuesday early in the afternoon. I made funeral arrangements. My mother went with me. I scheduled the funeral for Saturday. My phone was quiet at home. I half expected someone from one of the local congregations to offer to help with a lunch after the funeral but none did. We were all Jehovah's Witnesses. Finally I called the best friend of my dead wife's sister and asked her if she could organize a coffee and cake lunch after the funeral. The first thing out of her mouth was "Who's going to pay for it? I'm not gonna!".

    We had a funeral. We had a burial. We had coffee and cake. I paid for it all. I was 26 years old. I was a practicing Jehovah's Witness from 1952 until 1974.

    Gary Busselman, East Unit Congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses, Sioux Falls, South Dakota.

  • delilah
    delilah

    As I sit here, literally sobbing, for both Shunned father and for Gary, I am reminded of my very best friend, who died also from leukemia,24 years ago. She too, refused treatment, bone marrow transplant. I remain devastated, to this very day, over her loss. This is such a travesty, to all involved. The hurt and the pain and the suffering never goes away...my loss is not as great as shunned father or Gary's, for whom my heart goes out to......I am so sorry for your devastation, i hope you are able to heal as you endeavor to help others. I am saddened as the same scenario is played out over, and over again within the organization. When will it ever end??? My love to all who have lost a loved one to the borg.

    Dee

  • JAVA
    JAVA

    I know this sounds convoluted, but wouldn't it tick you off today if you refused blood and died years ago as a JW?


    The point is most of us would have refused blood as Witnesses because we blindly allowed the Tower to control our lives, and as a result, our death. Refusing blood is a death sentence in many cases. I knew a young mother that hemorrhaged while giving birth, and she die. She left a spouse, and 3 children without a mother. She could have been on this forum today, taking part in this thread if she had given birth without complications. But all is lost for her because she did what most of us would have done--die for a lying publishing firm.


    If she could know what we know today, and being on this forum today, knowing she died years ago, how angry would she be before going back into the void?


    Gary--I'm so sorry for your loss.

  • joanne_
    joanne_

    this is such a tragic case.....gary my heart goes out to you. you explained so clearly exactly what happens to the jw family when they do not do right 'in the eyes of god' according to them. it is so pointless for this doctrine to be in place. God is a God of love, and I cannot understand the thinking that would make him (god) want to give up our life....they forget...'life is precious'....cherish it, fight for it...God will be with you...etc...Gary I am so sorry that you lost your wife...but just remember, you and your wife did what you thought was right at the time...and with the knowledge that you knew at the time. I pray that everything will turn out ok for you and that you have peace in your life.

    Remember, we only do what we know, and when we know more, we do more..and we do better ..

    joanne

  • Rabbit
    Rabbit

    Shunned Father, Gary & Delilah,

    I am sorry for your own personal tragedies and losses. Gary...I don't know what to say. As a young father my faithful JW wife and I refused blood for our newborn child -- we got lucky -- she lived. Of course she became a living 'miracle' example to us and many other JW's, as what happens when the faithful ...remain faithful. I cannot now believe...or understand HOW I could have put my childs life in jeopardy. At least now I SEE my mistake, my now X wife is still very 'faithful' (blinded).

    Then, my Mom, a very, very good person, as well as a faithful (blinded) JW...died. She, too had cancer. I and my family gathered to watch my mother, who gave me life...smother to death from lack of red blood cells and because, the Watchtower thought it was best that way.

    Her heart was just beating as fast as possible...trying, trying, until there just wasn't enough oxygen. Then it stopped and my Mom was no more.

    And then the Watchtower used my mothers body to offer a "Free Home Bible Study", "...ask any of Jehovah's Witnesses...," they said before she was to be put into the ground.

    They would not have wanted anybody to talk to me that day.

    Rabbit

    *I hope everyone who has lost someone posts their stories on this thread. Newbies and long-out folks NEED to see the results of being faithful (blinded) by the light from the Watchtower Bible & Tract Society. They are murderers...

  • EvilForce
    EvilForce

    Wow...words cannot convey the damage their dogma has caused.

    I'm sure others died of not getting vaccinated either when the GB was high and mighty about that. Their blood stand is yet another doctrinal stand with no moral backing.

  • BluesBrother
    BluesBrother

    Wahatever I was going to say seems insignificant compared to the personal accounts of Gary, Rabbit, Java and delila that are written above. I think you have provided the eloquent answer.....

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