I also came to the conclusion that it was unfair to raise my kids in that religion when they would probably at some point in life decide that it sucks and want out. I wasn't prepared to disown them under any circumstance, no matter what they do. I figure that even if my family never talks to me again I will live.Moanzy
I agree with Moanzy - I couln't see myself keeping my kids locked down like the dubs want you to. After the college thing, I decided for myself that I wanted my children to have a life - NOW!
But the big D came as a result of severing ties with my soon to be ex. by committing the big A - he ratted me out - they asked, I confessed and the rest is history.
Sometimes we do things we otherwise wouldn't do just to break free. That was the case for me. The doubts were there but I wasn't certain that it wasn't the truth then. I just really wanted out.