Any good times?

by tattoogrl333 16 Replies latest jw friends

  • josephus
    josephus

    ah yes farkel is right i do drink a lot.

    however as in any club there will be good times, and bad.

    you will enjoy beleiving you are better and more knowledgable than others.

    you will enjoy gossiping, and bitching.

    you will LOVE putting everything off because of thinking the END IS NEAR.

    Sadly the clud will eventually make you pay dues, and that sucks.

    your life will be in the hands of the elders. they say thats not so, but wait , and see how youll have to ask their opinion about everything you do.

    i was and am a great chess player and was ADVISED to give it up to concentrate on spiritual things.

    anyway if you go ahead good luck. if not try join a pub quiz team. youll get the same fun without the guilt about getting drunk.

  • gsark
    gsark

    I had just as many good times, just as much fun, and have retained just as many fond memories of being 'in' as the Israelites slaves in Moses' day did.

    I mean, how bad could being an Egyption slavehave been? Their baby boys were threatened with death, so what; they could make more. They didn't get straw for their buildings, so what; job security. Gotta give those 'lively' Hebrew women sompin' to do anyways. And when they did leave, not only did they go loaded down with gold and jewels and whatnot, but they went loaded down with Egyptians as well. Danged if I know why the Hebrews left in the first place...

    See? Lots of good times.

    And before someone goes screaming off indignatly, I am being facetious. Fa see shous...okay?

    Life is a roller coaster. Get in, sit down, shut up and hang on!

  • jayhawk1
    jayhawk1

    Sure, there were a few good times. Not many, but a few. The parents of children my age never let us do much. As I became an adult, those same people near my age were emotionally draining. I became very much alone. So I would have to say the best day of my Jehovah's Witnesses experience is when I left for good.

    "Hand me that whiskey, I need to consult the spirit."-J.F. Rutherford

  • Commie Chris
    Commie Chris

    Drinking. Lots and lots of drinking. That's what I remember most from my brief stint as a Dub. I am now a sober agnostic.

  • wondering alot
    wondering alot

    Tequila night.....
    I also learn some self confidence and how to speak in front of audiences without sounding too foolish.

  • Grunt
    Grunt

    Contrary to the trend, we didn't drink much at all. The parties we had were more like picnics, great food and just visiting. We had a small congregation, all white, and most were related. We got a big influx of Special Pioneers from Miami and that sure changed things. We still didn't drink but as it was getting close to 75 and most of these people had sold their homes and were just trying to get the TRUTH out it was a very gung ho bunch. I'll never forget the rush we used to get when Sinutko was laying it on thick at the Assembly, "We are not backing off '75!" Not knowing it was a lie we were pretty pumped up over it. In rural Alabama it was good to meet a group like we had come up there. Nice people really, I enjoyed knowing them. Sadly, the highs are equaled by the lows. When 75 came and went, so did they. Most got divorced, most have "fallen away." Sad really. Still, feeling you were the only ones who had the message that could save all the people you were talking to and sharing this "work" with a small group that were giving it their all was refreshing. Moonies probably feel the same way about helping all of us to learn that Korea is the promised land and that Rev. Moon is correcting the errors of Christ, (he was supposed to have gotten married and had children they think) I guess even if it is a load of crap if you see it as God's Gift you can enjoy pushing it. There are repercussions though that last the rest of your life. Those families that came and then disintegrated after the failure of 75. They suffered for the lies and the egos up in Brooklyn, as did we. Our large close family has been decimated by the cult known as Jehovah's Witnesses to the point that probably half avoid the other half and that quite a few won't speak to some others, even parents and immediate family members. Not over biblical sins, but over trying to expose the cult. They could probably forgive us anything but that. Sad.

  • lisaBObeesa
    lisaBObeesa

    As I was thinking about this question, the first thing that popped into my mind was, "Well, yes, there was some good stuff about being a JW. Like...
    Meeting my best friend.
    Being brought up with morals.
    Some of the parties...
    A few weddings..."

    And then I realized that none of the things I called 'the good things about being a JW' had anything to do with being a JW at all.

    So, no, I can't think of any positives to me having been a JW.
    Some of the time wasn't bad, but it had nothing to do with being a JW.

    --LisaBobeesa

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