by Daunt 35 Replies latest jw friends
This is the pure truth when it comes to the dating, or the single scene among young JWs.
Wouldn't want to be in the JW dating scene ever again! Not only is the brother-to-sister ratio a ridiculous 1 to 15 sisters, but also finding a good man among the few already there is like searching for a needle in a haystack.
DY - Of the "I have one of the "wanted brothers" as a husband" class. Very lucky indeed to have such a good man by my side.
Six billion men woman and children about to die and what is important to them?
The more things change in dub land, the more they stay the same,this is my experience from the 1980's before i came to my senses and got the hell out. 
POWER PRESTIGE P***Y 
The saga of the,COOLS vs. the GEEKS
The trifecta of the 3 P's and they are,Power, Prestige,P***y and the compulsion to be "COOL" at all cost.What it means to be 'exemplary'.Exemplary means that you '$how what you owe'.
In 1989 a leading elder { that I trusted } taps me on the shoulder and tells me how he has telephoned the WT$ H.Q. Ivory tower,to inquire on,"how much longer can it last"."It can only 'last' just a few more months is the ominous reply".
Yes sir, this is heavy on my heart. Just how will I be 'found in the day of Jehovah's anger'?Will I 'probably' be saved?How do I conduct myself with the horrific death of nearly 6 billion men women and small children on my conscience?Will I be found 'blood-guilty' for not serving Jehovah to the fullest.[Col.3:23]
Who, should I look to as an example? What about the resident 'Bethelite'? He just did a stint at Brooklyn and was a ministerial servant,and is looked up to as "exemplary". 
He is also considered to be the 'coolest' guy in the hall.In fact he drives a 'cool' two door Saab coupe.{the sisters are drooling over him}.He also subscribes to 'worldly',Rolling stone and Spin magazines.So he can be current with all the latest coolest 'worldly'. trends.
In contrast,I have heeded the WT$'s directive to only purchase a modest,$1,500.00 four door family style sedan.it's very plain and ordinary (geeky) I think it s**ks,I'm a 4X4 pickup man myself.But the Ivory tower say's only buy four door sedans
to facilitate,'car groups' for the sacred door to door 'field service'.
I'm making $50,000.00 a year and I drive a 's**t box'.because i am donating all my profits to the Watchtower $ociety.I am also at (age 29) still living with mom and dad, to economize on living expenses. geek I keep my nearly blind from birth mom,furnished with all the necessary appliances for sure.I even bought her a 25" color TV from K-mart.While the most popular(exemplary) family in the church has a wide screen TV.
I bought with cash, for a pioneer, a better car than I have.I am giving Thousands of dollars to the Watchtower's world wide work,while my family and I lives modestly.
For all my sincere earnest toil and goodness, I am loathed and ridiculed by my brothers and sisters at the Rockland Massachusetts congregation.
Sneering at me behind my back.Yes,they tried to pin a 'kick me sign' on my back.Squeezed into their mold a dumb geek,"who is so dumb,why he doesn't have the sense to be cool like us". 
This is the event that set me free. The god of these ass"wholes" is not the god i will serve . 
Hi DannyHaszard!
I have a cousin who is treated as you were by the congregation he is in. The PO's daughters even tried to run him over 'for a laugh' of course! The giggling ass holes said they just wanted to see how fast he could run! He still doesn't see sense though!
Glad for you that you've left the bOrg. And good luck in your future endeavours!
That email is definitely spot on.
Twickenham was notorious for the "Cattle market".Boy the fun me and my Mates had there.Im afraid we were definitely naughty "players"and we were even spoke to by the Elders.But 11 hours ministry a month will see your way to MS!It did with me.Amazingly the minor celebrity involved with being a Ms definitely impressed the Sisters.
How utterly,utterly ridiculous.
Also,when we did make new Friends we spent the evening getting pissed with them at "the bird in hand".(Twickers regulars will know what i mean .lol)
The thread is amusing but don't forget this competitive DOG EAT DOG milieu is death and destruction. 
Think of all the deadly casualities of boys and girls who were stumbled over this abuse and would take off and run away from home.
I know of countless cases of sisters who would run away,get DFed some never heard from again.
I NEVER acted this way to my sisters and i am proud to have been a genuine square.
I had empathy for all the lonely desperate sisters looking for a nice brother to care for them,and all they have is ding-a-lings.
It ain't funny when it happens to your baby sister or your own daughter.
The Narco's- Narcoleptics I mean- The well dressed brother who sits like 3 or four rows behind or in front of you, who removes his suit jacket before the session starts, places it in the seat in front of him, grabs his bible and places it on his right knee than proceeds to SLEEP through the WHOLE session!
Sounds like the perfect guy to me...as long as I can prop myself up against him so I can catch a little shut eye too.
I do remember the meat market days. I distinctly remember going in the bathroom watching the girls my age putting on make-up and getting all dolled up and leaning over to my other nerd girl friend saying - "Look war paint!"
Oh yes - many a sisterly friendship was ruined when a hot chunk of 'hova meat came to the hall. OH THE CAT FIGHTS! Over a guy they got to know for five minutes while standing next to the dunk tank.
I was never cool enough to get in on that action, plus a little too sarcastic, and not nearly enough spiritual goals. When prospective suitors would ask what I was going to do after school I would say, "Go to college". Heh heh. I was a Pootiemite maiden - screw the Shulamite crap.
I don't know where I would have fit in those groups...no "loner sister" there...I was taking notes and listening..but really didn't have any goals...well, spiritual goals, that is. I might have been a Shulamite chick without the goals...maybe that's why I never got approached.lol
LIARS- these sisters say, "I would love to go to Bethel someday? I could definitely see myself as a pioneer when I'm married." Meanwhile, you can't help but to notice their tight-fitting dress with a slit beginning at the waist as they say it.
The Fast One- The one who meets you on Friday, and by Sunday he's trying to sit with you.
LIARS- these sisters say, "I would love to go to Bethel someday? I could definitely see myself as a pioneer when I'm married." Meanwhile, you can't help but to notice their tight-fitting dress with a slit beginning at the waist as they say it.
My prime objective back in the day was to scope out those types, but usually, my mom put the kabosh on that. Now those girls are probably strippers and porn stars, but would sceam the word "Apostate" I came up to her and said "It's not really the truth" while she's pole dancing.
The Fast One- The one who meets you on Friday, and by Sunday he's trying to sit with you.My 2 favorite tricks.
The Gamer - The one who walks by you a few times, looking for your name on your lapel badge. Then, next time he passes by, he calls you by your name and says "Don't I know you?"
"Oh yes - many a sisterly friendship was ruined when a hot chunk of 'hova meat came to the hall."
Don't type stuff like that when I have a mouthful of coffee. ROFLMAO.
