How many married folks post here and your spouse does not know?

by xjwms 30 Replies latest jw friends

  • IP_SEC
    IP_SEC

    Well we are sharing a computer right now, cuz my power supply is out. Umm well I left a post on 607 up that I thought she might like... My bad.

  • tetrapod.sapien
    tetrapod.sapien

    ha ha ha!

    ya, that happens. sorry man...

  • blondie
    blondie

    I posted for almost a year before telling my husband. Now he posts from time to time.

    Blondie

  • xjwms
    xjwms

    Thanks for the responce all of you.

    I was just wondering how you feel about it, or are you just healing yourself.

    Because I find this does help me. And sometimes, you have to do things just for you.

  • KenUK
    KenUK

    I do - and as she is not an ex she doesn't care or give a damn....

  • Grace
    Grace

    My JW husband does not know. I don't think he would understand posting to a site that has nothing to do with sexual affairs etc. (in other words, I think he would think there is a sexual side to all of this). He is not really computer literate and I believe he is at the point where it is easier to not question Watchtower ~ not that he ever questioned it, ever!

    I was thinking, too, how much I know about current happenings from reading these posts. Like the UN thing... I haven't mentioned it to him yet, but I will at some point. I think those in the flock are absolutely clueless about things we all now know for a certainty.

    Grace to you.

  • delilah
    delilah

    My husband is DF'd, and really could care less that I post here. But he did wonder why I felt the need to be on this site,as he thought that once we left the borg, we wouldn't need to talk about it ever again. He was not raised in the religion, as I was from age 10, so he doesn't understand the need for me to heal my wounds, so-to-speak. But after hearing me laugh and tell him the funny things posted here, and the more serious info on the society, that we never knew about before we left the borg, he is grateful for the site.....as I am. Thanks Simon...

    Dee

  • Goldminer
    Goldminer

    My wife doesn't know I post here but she check the history once and seen that I had been here.When she asked about it I said it was a jw discussion forum,that her step-mother told us about it a few years ago.Whewhhhhhh!She left it at that.

    I haven't been visiting or posting as often since.

  • stevenyc
    stevenyc

    It might be a terrible pain for your spouse to discover you're at you computer, hidden away until the early hours, associating with apostates. However, will it be worse than her thinking your were visiting the porn sites?

    steve

  • unbeliever
    unbeliever

    To those whose spouses don't know......if they found out do you think they would go running to the elders?

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