My mum is rather CROSS at sister Elderette!

by Gill 17 Replies latest jw friends

  • Gill
    Gill

    My mother was rather upset last week.

    She had been sorting the territory when the group was out on field service. There were only lowly women present so there was no problem with her doing this, as she usually did. Then as she was just finishing an elder and his wife drove up, parked and approached them.

    Almost immeadiately the elder's wife began to scowl. Then she said:

    ".....a. , could you give that map to .......e as he's the man here."

    My mother replied, 'but I've just finished giving out the territory and all there was is not at homes. He can have it if he wants but there's nothing to sort..."

    "But .....e should be in charge of the map and the territory as he's the elder and the man!" the elders wife replied angrily.

    'Don't worry dear, ' the elder replied. 'It's fine as it is.'

    'But YOU should be in charge of the map!' His wife countered angrily.

    The other humble, lowly women at the group had begun wandering of in a state of embarrassment.

    Mum took the map out of her bag and handed it to ....e who took it.

    The next day the elders wife visited my mother.

    She apologised for seeming 'harsh' to my mum, but told her "It's important that as a woman you understand your place in the congregation and accept Jehovah's provision of and Elder's headship.!'

    I'd like to say that my mum took a swing at her and relieved her of a few of her pearly whites but sadly no.

    She just went through how the territory was finished, they were working on Not Homes blaa, blaa.

    However she's bloody ANGRY at sister Elderette who will now be permanently crossed off her Christmas Card list! He he! Sounds wicked, but it serves her right for insisting 'it's the true religion!'

    Makes your heart glow when you hear these little stories of christian love and unity!

  • IP_SEC
    IP_SEC

    Sounds like the bumstead elder wasnt on time to the meeting eh? Haha I loves it.

  • Gill
    Gill

    Hi IP-SEC!

    It hadn't even occured to me that the dumb ass was late!

    Perhaps mum aught to visit them and reprove them on their timekeeping! With a tea towel on her head, of course!

  • IP_SEC
    IP_SEC
    With a tea towel on her head, of course!

    hahah lol god we are stoopid ppl with stoopid rules. I've heard of a sister with no hat to use so she had a plastic grocery bag she put on for her head covering..

    Jeaaazzzus Chraaasstus.

  • Gill
    Gill

    Sad rules and sadder people!

  • blondie
    blondie

    Of course, if Sister Elderette were taking her own advice she would have let her husband ask for territory.

  • fairchild
    fairchild
    I've heard of a sister with no hat to use so she had a plastic grocery bag she put on for her head covering..

    Oh, now they're trying to suffocate themselves? *shakes head*

  • MidwichCuckoo
    MidwichCuckoo
    'Don't worry dear, ' the elder replied. 'It's fine as it is.'

    'But YOU should be in charge of the map!' His wife countered angrily.

    I'd have liked to be a fly on the wall when SHE got HIM home!!

  • Gill
    Gill

    Hi MC!

    I remember this particular elder as being a very gentle man but his wife very 'Ambitious', down to the fine tuning of her 'costumes' for the sunday meetings and assembly occassions.

    His tie ALWAYS matched her outfit.

    But I really can't say a bad word about him except that he was TOO hen pecked by both his wife and his very snotty, spoiled daughter.

  • HadEnuf
    HadEnuf

    Gill...boy did that experience bring back major "flashbacks"! How ridiculous it was to be enmeshed in such petty situations with "sisters" who thought THEY had special rights just because they were married to an elder. Good Riddance!

    cathy l.

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