is it possible...

Dan-O

Yep. As a matter of fact, 22 years later I'm still married to a gal I met when I was just a few months older than you are now. Yeah, we've had our ups & downs, but we managed to work things out.

i was reflecting back on a past crush and i looked at the guys she dated and they are fugly, either fat or pale and skinny or covered in freckle shit. it made me feel not hot, like what the hell is wrong with me?

so when does it start? college?

Dan-O

Speaking as a fugly fat guy covered in freckle shit, it starts after high school.

carla

Why don't you try being friends first? Even if you have a crush on someone. Husband and I met in highschool, we were friends for about a year before we became involved. Though we both really had a crush on each other. Been married 20 years now, not too happy with him these days but...... carla

tsunami_rid3r

being friends with a crush was hard. its summer time now. blah. concerts and partyin for me.

oh yea i feel like total shit because at grad night party lockdown the girl said hi to me then tried to talk to me but i just walked away. not to mention ive had her blocked for a week now, last night i unblocked her.

GetBusyLiving

:oh yea i feel like total shit because at grad night party lockdown the girl said hi to me then tried to talk to me but i just walked away.

That's probably not the best idea with you looking to get laid and all.

GBL

Dan-O

" i never really thought about returning the same feelings"

Dude, there's your answer. Chicks dig it when you feel the same way about them as they feel about you.

If you don't feel it, then you don't. There's nothing you can do. (Well, I suppose you can fake it for a night just to get laid, but that's kinda empty.)

Flash back to your childhood & the Velveteen Rabbit. Chicks dig guys who are real.

carla

"looking to get laid"?!! What? did I miss something? I thought you actually liked this girl? What does 'blocked' mean? don't worry that you walked away, some young girls think that it is mysterious rather than insecurity. If you are lucky she will see through all that and say Hi again. How is it she managed to be there to say hi? Did you know girls can manage to be in the right spot at the right time? Highschool has been awhile but I have one graduating next weekend, things haven't changed that much. I remember girls planning out just where said crush would be after the bell, racing like crazy to make it to the other side of the school (or wherever) just to manage a casual hello! You really should try to get to know her. Sometimes the fantasy of a person can never live up to the reality. When you go to your 20th reunion you will know what I am talking about! Best of luck, (note-not lucky) carla

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