An an exjw, I'm well aware of the fact that they arrogantly think they're God's only chosen people.
My family used to be frequently visited by an elder and his family. My family strayed from "the truth", and they would constantly come to our home and try to get us back on the "straight and narrow" path.
So, what happened to this elder and his family? Their adult daughter was accused of having sexual relations with a 13 year old boy. When the police came to their home to arrest her, she told the authorities that she had to use the restroom before going off to the slammer. On her way to the bathroom, she picked up a 9mm handgun, shut the bathroom door, and blew her brains out.
A few months later, the elder's wife came to our home with even more bad news. It turns out that her 50-something husband met and fell in love with a 26 year old girl. He left "the truth", his family, and everything that he had known, to be with this young woman.
Now, if Jehovah is real and He is watching over his flock, why would he allow these things to happen? How did being in "the truth" benefit these good people in ANY way whatsoever? The fact of the matter is, it did not. "Jehovah" protected this family just as he protects ANY other family...not in the least.
Just one more reason why I no longer believe. If he *is* real (which I highly doubt), he was just as kind to this family as he was to that of Job.
What a sadistic bastard he would be.