Senna - you've received great responses by those of us who have traveled in shoes like yours... :) Bottom line, do what you think is right for you and when it is right for you, but DO it. I mean, try writing everything down - if you feel better - awesome, if that doesn't do it for you, then maybe you should confront them - and you've been given great advise in regards to confronting elders. But in the end, you'll feel so much better having done it your way and moving on afterwards is key to your happiness. Welcome and look forward to hearing from you!
should I Respond to judgment panel after 14 years?
by sennabrasil94 14 Replies latest jw friends
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beroea
Leave if posible the pain behind you. They will not listen to you and you will have no respons.
By the way I love your name. I was a big fan of Senna. What at bad F1 race day back on Imola in 1994.
Beroea
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Helen
the best revenge is living and loveing well..personally its time to let it go,and move on if you can..send a letter but like RHW says write it down and if you feel so inclined then send it..hugs to you for all your pain, you are most definatly NOT alone.
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Tina
Hi Senna,
Welcome aboard!
I'm gonna chime in with those who suggested you do what you feel is for YOUR benefit. Sounds like you need some closure on this chapter of your life. Expressing yourself will give you that closure.hugs,Tina -
Gordy
This past week I have had two elders call on me. This is the first time in two years,since i last attended the Kingdom Hall. They where trying to get me to return. I told them that if in two years they have not bothered to call, one of them only lived about 100 yards away, why now. Is it because they are desperate to get people back as numbers here in Britain have fallen. I told them no way after what i have learnt in those two years and gave them my letter of disassociation. Now today while out shopping i met a JW brother who is a ministerial servant, he says "Hello, haven't seen you at the meetings these past couple of weeks" I told him I hadn't been for a couple of years. He was completly thrown by it and i told him i had just disassociated myself also. You have never seen a person so confused and not knowing what to do, he just mumbled and practically ran off.