Who cares? The level of paranoia here seems to be abnormally high.
I could see how people who have not lost everyone yet may be worried, but for the most part when you have it all taken you loose the paranoia...I am of the mindset of "What can they do? Take my Birthday away?" They did that once.twice and three times....
So to me a Happy Birthday!! I just turned 35 in a great way! With a birthday drink and all!