What makes you think I didn't have one while I was in?
I've always had a roving eye, even when in the truth. Even after getting married. I look, I just try not to touch.
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What makes you think I didn't have one while I was in?
I've always had a roving eye, even when in the truth. Even after getting married. I look, I just try not to touch.
There's nothing wrong with looking. I didn't realize when you got in a relationship you needed to turn into a eunch / priest. He assumed you were "immoral". As I've ranted on other threads most of the self righteous jag bags in the KH would tell me "if I was worldly I'd be sleeping with a different girl everynight".
I'd think in the back of my mind hmmm......a window washing, small town, fat, uncultured, uneducated, judgemental boob....yeah right go ahead and try. I'm sure the females will be falling from the sky like mana for your dumb, hick ass.
Of course they got a "mental woody" because look at how righteous they were....look what they were by-passing for Jehoba.
That really kills me, how they automatically assume that you MUST be immoral. (It really makes you wonder what THEY are suppressing).
I am more moral than most of them. In fact, if some of them were not married, they would be disfellowshipped for immorality almost every other year. The reason I say this is that a few of them had this problem before they were married. They certainly don't have control of their vessel.
Theres an old british saying that 'just because you are on a diet it doesnt mean you cant look at the menu' and I think that definately applies.
It doesn’t have to be wrong as one cousin told me, you admire beauty of the sunset, the song of birds; you appreciate exotic meal and equally you can now more appreciate the natural beauty of opposite sex.
I quite agree...although I wouldnt openly do so with my partner present...she has a great left hook...but your not telling me she doesnt look....course she does..and so do I...just not in way thats disrespectful to Elaine or the person im looking letching at.
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Wandering eyes are fine - wandering hands beware!
Mr crumpet has two wandering eyes - occassionally entire conversations can transpire in which he has not heard a word. I think its just a miracle that a pretty girl not only obstructs his vision but can interfere with his hearing too!
However - since I am just as appreciative of the female form as he is I tend to spot them and call them "mine" first! I will only stop if he starts looking similarly at other men!
At the moment I'm happy being the only gay in the relationship! hehe
Crumpet, nothing better than a couple who have similar taste!
I always had one and always will. I like to look at who looks good to me. No problem w/my husband admiring either. If someone looks good, they look good, point blank. No sense in pretending to be blind.
Crumpet...girl, you crack me up!
My problem wasn't a wandering eye, rather it is because of my wandering mind that I am no longer one of Joe Hoba's Witnesses.
I have always apprecaited and admired and looked at feminine beauty even when I was an elder. I still have a wandering eye - I just do not touch that is all