thanx to all who posted through the night
some useful suggestions there
i am on holiday from college at the moment so unable to use any of my tutors..and when i was selfemployed it was mostly private houses so didnt get to know anyone too well and with businesses i would submit invoices to hq so didnt get to know many there plus all of this is done with the mentality that a jw shouldnt be getting too friendly with 'worldly' people...and i have been away from this line of work for about 3 years now
i will come up with something if the occasion demands it...i was just reflecting at the time i was filling in the forms that this is another example of how abandoned you feel when everyone you knew was a jw and now they dont want anything to do with you
this too will pass