Friend's Daughter Diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes... Post Your Support

by FMZ 21 Replies latest jw friends

  • AuntieJane
    AuntieJane

    This is from the www.JDRF.org website. It is awesome that these kids can continue with a 'normal' life. I hope this doesn't take up too much space, but it is a great Bio on a great kid. Jennifer's motto:

    You can do anything

    you put your mind

    to! Jen's stats>

    Jennifer Olds has been a softball standout for most of her life, but she was still shocked when she got a call to join the Ladies’ Professional Fastpitch Tour for its first season in Spring 2005. “I couldn’t believe it,” she says. “I never thought I’d get such an amazing opportunity.”
    ennifer was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes at age 10, and it took her nearly five years to get her blood sugar levels stabilized. She was in and out of hospitals during that time, and feeling mopey and tired even on good days. It wasn’t until she decided to go on the insulin pump at age 15 that she started to feel healthy and energetic again.
    With her newfound fame, Jennifer hopes to raise awareness about the importance of sports and recreation for people with type 1 diabetes. “I am very interested in sharing my story, especially with young people,” she says.

    CFK's Interview with Jennifer: Q. So how did you first get interested in softball, Jennifer?A: Well, I started playing T-ball when I was 5. Then from there I got into softball and have been playing every season since. I must have about 30,000 trophies by now! I tried other sports, too, but softball was always my favorite.

    Q. And when did diabetes enter the picture?A: When I was 10… actually it was two weeks before my 11th birthday. I had lost 25 pounds, so I was really skinny. I was carrying water bottles with me everywhere I went. When my mom took me to the doctor’s office they knew immediately what was wrong and sent me to the hospital. I was in intensive care for about a week and a half, and then I had to stay another week to learn how to take care of myself and give myself shots.

    Q. What did you do when the doctor told you?A: Believe it or not, I was just relieved to know what was wrong with me. My mom was trying to be strong, but as soon as the doctor said she was taking it really well, she started bawling.

    Q. And after that?A: It was really hard at first. I didn’t want people to know about it. I had two main groups of friends, one from school and one from my softball rec. league. Everybody in the league knew I was sick, but I didn’t want anyone at school to know. I had to tell my teacher, of course, so we set up a system where anytime I had to test my blood, I would raise my hand and then pat my head a few times. That way I was allowed to leave class without everyone having to know what I was doing.

    It’s funny, one of my softball friends used to give me shots when I couldn’t do it myself. And everyone wanted to test my blood. I was embarrassed for probably a year or two, but everyone was so interested that I eventually got over it. I realized they didn’t want to judge me or make fun of me, they were just curious.

    Q. Did having diabetes affect your ability to play softball?A: Yes, definitely. The first doctor I had didn’t really know how to help me. I kept having blood sugars in the 300s, and the only thing he knew to do was increase my insulin dosage. I kept having to go to the hospital every few months. At that point, I was trying to play in five games a day sometimes, and I felt horrible. But I was stubborn, so I played anyway.

    Then I switched to a different doctor and my readings evened out a little, but soon they were back in the 300s again. He told me I needed to go on the pump, but I refused. I didn’t want a needle in my stomach all the time.

    Q. So you never went on the pump?A: Actually, I did, about a year later. I’d say it pretty much saved my life. My blood sugars finally stopped reading over 300. Before that, I had been in the 300s for about three years and I was up to six shots a day. After the pump, I never went to the hospital again for high blood sugars. And for the first time I actually knew what it felt like to feel good. I could run, eat, and communicate with people again. I was so happy.

    Q. And what is your diabetes regimen like now?A: When I know I’m going to be doing intense training at the beginning of a season, I test my blood sugar about half an hour before I begin each practice, and then again right before. If my levels are okay, I take my insulin pump off, and I always have my orange slices and candy with me in case I start to go low.

    I found out my blood sugar usually drops during exercise, so now I eat a snack half an hour before—about 15 carbs and a little protein, like crackers and cheese—and don’t bolus for it. It takes time and a lot of testing to find out what will work for you.

    When I stop training, my blood sugars rise a little and I need more insulin again. I found that very interesting; it shows that exercise is really important for people with diabetes because you need less insulin when you’re active.

    During games I leave my pump on, but I still test a lot to make sure I will perform to the best of my ability. I test my blood about five to six times per game.

    Q. Are your coaches and teammates supportive?A. Yes, very. All my trainers, coaches, and teammates in college knew I had diabetes. The coaches had lots of questions at first. They were concerned about my health more than anything and told me I could sit out anytime I needed to, in practices and games, which was a relief to me.

    It was funny wearing my pump during games, though. The umpires had no idea what a pump was when I started. I couldn’t really hide it anywhere, so every single game I’d get a comment from the umpire telling me I had to take my pager off. Then I’d explain what it was, and they’d get very embarrassed and apologize. My teammates would always joke about it and eventually nicknamed me “Motorola.”

    Q. For those who might not know what the Ladies’ Professional Fastpitch Tour is, can you explain it? A: Sure. It’s a new tour this year. There’s a professional softball league in the U.S., and this tour is in addition to the regular season. We will play for on weekends in cities across the nation beginning in May 2005. The schedule is posted online at www.lpfatour.com.

    Q. What do you plan to do now that you’ve finished college? A: I just graduated in December from the University of Michigan with a Sports Management and Communications degree, and my goal in life is to run a youth recreation center with as many sports and age groups as possible. I enjoyed our rec. center so much as a kid that I want to offer the same opportunities to other kids.

    I also can’t wait to go home and see my family in Florida. I’ve been away for about four and a half years for school and softball.

    And I’m planning to do more volunteer work with JDRF and other diabetes-related groups. I recently spoke as a panelist at a Diabetes Exercise and Sports Association conference in Chicago, and I had a great time meeting and talking with new people.

    Q. What do you like to do when you’re not playing softball?A: My favorite thing to do is spend time with my family, boyfriend, close friends, and relatives, especially since I’ve been away so long. I’m looking forward to getting to know them again.

    I also love volleyball and anything to do with being outside and having fun.

    Q. What do you feel is your greatest accomplishment so far in life? A: I’d have to say moving away from home and being on my own, and being as successful as I have been in school, sports, and life. I pretty much jumped at the chance to play softball away from home, even though I was scared. For the first time, I had to take care of myself and make my own decisions, which made me grow up so much.

    I gained a lot of confidence playing softball in Lansing (community college), especially when I broke the homerun record. I realized that I really can be at the top even though I have diabetes. Then I succeeded in going to one of the top ten schools in the nation (University of Michigan) on an athletic scholarship. I am so grateful to have had that opportunity.

    Q. What do you hope to share with other people with type 1 diabetes?

    A: That they can do anything they put their minds to and nothing can stop them. The mind is a powerful thing. When you’re first diagnosed, it seems like the end of the world. It takes time to adjust, but try not to be ashamed of it. Instead, be proud of yourself for overcoming a difficult disease that many people do not understand. And, like I said before, don’t be afraid of questions and attention. People are just curious, and they want to learn and help.

    Jennifer talked to us for the Spring 2005 issue of CFK magazine.

  • AuntieJane
    AuntieJane

    Sorry, I'm having trouble posting. Just want to say my heart goes out to your friends, the 10 year old, and the 3 year old, and their families. My daughter was diagnosed at 16 yoa, that was 14 years ago now. It was a Total Shock, the symptoms were there but we were clue-less. Her Blood sugar was 1200! I just want to tell parents that there is such good help and support, take it all one step at a time. But get educated and don't give up. Your kid will blossom despite this illness if you have a positive attitude about it.

    My daughter was a top volleyball and basketball player. And an A student. She is on 4 injections each day, but it works to keep her in good control. It is never easy, but it can be controlled. She didn't and does not let diabetes slow her down one bit....but it does affect your life 24-7.

    One has to look at the good side of everything we are handed in life. And always look at the other person who is worse off than you. As a parent, I tried to hide my tears and worries more than once.

    God bless the little Type I's and their families. I'd be happy to answer any emails...and please check out the JDRF, www.jdrf.org. They are a great bunch of people to get involved with through their walks, etc. Get all the support you can!

    AuntieJ

  • DannyHaszard
    DannyHaszard

    I have diabetes my A1C is always 5.5 or below (excellent control)

    ABC's of diabetes management type 1 or type 2

    A) strenuous exercise 30-45 mins

    B)strenuous exercise 30-45 mins

    C)strenuous exercise 30-45 mins

    Eat lots of fiber,vegies and salads with each meal

    Danny [email protected]

  • greendawn
    greendawn

    I wish the best with the insulin therapy and sugar control for K, important to avoid complications.

    By the way diabetes is increasing over the last few years:

    http://www.mercola.com/2001/feb/4/diabetes_increase.htm

  • Preston
    Preston

    Dear FMZ's friend

    I'm truly sorry about what you are going through. If you ever want another friend's shoulder to lay your head on I'm sure there are many people here likewise who would like another friend.

    - Preston

  • FMZ
    FMZ

    To all that replied... thankyou very much. K's mom just read the posts, and was brought to tears by your support. She was extremely appreciative of the advice and links given. We will pass some of the info on to K too.

    Thanks for everything guys. The most beautiful apostate bunch I know. :)

    FMZ

  • gumby
    gumby

    I'd like to say your not alone little one. One of my best friends daughter was also diagnosed with this also. Twice she has NOT stuck to her diet and insulin upkeep.......and got very sick.........so I hope you follow all the things your supposed to do, and as scully said, you can still fullfill your dreams.

    Take care.....and don't let Keith give ya any trouble

    Gumby

  • FMZ
    FMZ

    Thanks Gumbo :) Wise words mate.

    FMZ

  • Billygoat
    Billygoat

    ((((("K"))))))

    I'm sorry that Mother Nature has sent you this hand to deal with. It stinks at first, but once the adjustments are made, you'll see blessings you hadn't anticipated. I do not have diabetes, but I have some pretty tough food allergies (wheat/yeast/dairy), so my diet is pretty restrictive too. It took a long time for me to realize how important it was to take care of myself...it was after "bad episode" after "bad episode" that reminded me WHY I needed to stick to my diet. And now I'm grateful for it. It's helped me realize I'm healthier when I eat right. I feel better, I can think better, I can function better all around. In some ways, it's made my life better!

    Take care of YOU!

    Andi

  • Big Tex
    Big Tex

    (((K)))

    My son has asthma and we try to teach him that it needs to be managed and make it part of who you are. He's very much into Harry Potter at the moment and wishes he were a wizard so that he could wave his magic wand and cure his asthma.

    Would that I could K, I would wave a magic wand for you too.

    Chris

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